<p>So i've narrowed my choice of colleges down to UCSB, UCLA, CAL, UCD, but i have a feeling that i'll be only accepted to ucsb and ucd and then picking ucsb
anyways, i'm an asian girl, but i'm not white-washed, nor am i fobby; i'd say.. i'm just a normal asian-american who's more studious than a party-person (but i'll definitely go to a lot of parties)
anyways- my friend (asian) goes to ucsb and he says most girls he sees at ucsb are super white-washed; is that true?</p>
<p>I would say yea a lot of the <em>pretty</em> and stuck up ones are white-washed and/or into the greek scene. </p>
<p>But come on, really, there’s bound to be a lot of studious asian girls…</p>
<p>I don’t know. It depends who you hang with. There’s lots of Asians in Davis, and I notice that most seem to tend to stick with their own groups.</p>
<p>Other than that… Universities in general have a very competitive atmosphere, compared to regular community colleges and high schools. So if you’re the studious type, I’m sure you’ll find plenty of asians to relate with. But feel free to hang loose every now and then. College is meant to be some of the best years of your life!</p>
<p>there’s also the Asian floor in the dorms which I’m sure is filled with people who are in your position if that makes you feel any better. but really you dont have anything to worry about it! like the others said, there are all types of people that go to ucsb, including non fob/white-washed asian people :)</p>
<p>@confused619: is there really? ahaha that’s cool; i don’t think i’ll join it though lol i honestly don’t mind about the white-washed asian thing, i’m just curious to know if it’s actually true :></p>
<p>@keltix: lOl yeah that’s exactly what my friend said hahaha bummer</p>
<p>Bummer? Not really. there’s still pretty asian girls who study hard.</p>
<p>lol no i know, bummer that a lot of the <em>pretty</em> asian girls are the white-washed stuck-up ones</p>
<p>so if you’re asian and you act too asian, then you’re fobby, and if you act too white, then you’re white washed? really now…</p>
<p>I can understand if you dont like stuck up asian girls, but why does it matter that they are white washed? maybe they were just raised around more western culture. just go to college and meet everyone you can. if you dont like them, then let them be. and asian people, please dont hang out with only asian people. white people arent that scary…not at all…ok but just a little. </p>
<p>ps im asian</p>
<p>woah chill your balls lmao where are you getting this; i was only responding to keltix’s comment “…a lot of the <em>pretty</em> and stuck up ones are white-washed…”</p>
<p>my purpose of creating this thread is cuz i’m curious to know if most or all asians you see at ucsb are actually white-washed: not meant to bash on asian girls who are raised around western culture. i’m friends with all types of asians and they’re all cool people that i have no problem with.</p>
<p>“White-washed” is such a dumb term.</p>
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<p>Is it any worse than Asians who only hang out w/ whites?</p>
<p>Or what about whites who hang out only w/ whites (aside from the token minority here and there)?</p>
<p>How many whites ever hang out in a group not largely made up of whites?</p>
<p>Well, UCSB definitely have a smaller % of Asians than do some of the other UCs, but what does that really mean?</p>
<p>Nothing much. I see Asian girls studying in the lounge all the time and they do get good grades.</p>
<p>As an Asian student myself, I can say this: despite being a “party school”, we actually get work done and done well.</p>
<p>Heck, the majority of the school does not even go to parties.</p>