Hey,
The college admissions process is over for me, and Im lucky enough to say that Im going to Yale. I just wanted to post a reflection about my time on CC and to make sure people know that if you work hard, great things happen.
First, Ill give a little background about myself. I go to a small charter school that has a great environment but average academics. Our first graduating class was 06, and weve had 2 kids go to Chicago and Duke, but everybody else stays instate. That would probably have been my journey had I not found CC.
I joined this board March 2008 as a sophomore. I had seen CC before May 07 specifically while looking up some stuff for AP biology. This time I was here to seriously prepare for AP calc and AP euro. In my school, nobody had gotten a 5 on more than one exam, and I wanted to prove that I could do it. This board had a ton of useful advice, and I did end up getting my double fives.
Over that summer, I read up a lot on Ivy League schools, extra curriculars, and SAT stuff. My dream school had always been MIT, but thats because everybody told me Id do great at MIT. I spent a lot of time on CC reading up on SAT advice, reading about different schools, and being anxious for the class of 12 and 13!
This board has been like another home to me. For those of us who grew up on CC, Im sure we can all relate to getting up at 4:45 AM waiting for SAT scores, sharing advice on exam prep, talking about extracurricular and eagerly discussing where we will go for college. Most of us know the excited feeling when somebody says we have a good shot at HYPSM even though we know their words are meaningless. This admission season I got to know MANY posters who I can recognize not only by their stats but also by their personalities and quirks. These people are family.
CC taught me how to become a great applicant, but it also showed me something much deeper. Before we get into that though, I just want to talk a bit about the application. Its VERY IMPORTANT not to get discouraged. Ever. I got a 2290 on my first take on the SAT, as a senior mind you, and I felt that it was not good enough for HYPSM. I got a 2310 on my re take, and my super scored was a 2370, so I knew that I was set. There was only a 1 month gap between them, and the only thing I changed was my approach. When I first took the SAT, I just wanted to get a 2400. I fell pretty short, but this didnt discourage me. On take two I tried to surpass my limits, and I got the extra points where I needed them. Dont ever let negatives hold you back.
[For people who arent used to the SAT prep forum: You probably feel Im an idiot for not liking a 2290. Thats okay. If youre not a regular, I dont think you can fully appreciate the process haha! 2290 is a terrific and amazing score, but I knew that I could do better, so I did]
I dont really care too much about specific stats and you can look at my topic history if youre interested in my stats, but I just want to say that most of my academic success has been due to CC. Ive taught myself AP classes through resources here, and Ive gone on to teach others in my school about what Ive learned. Its so important to share and help others grow, because you grow as a result.
The more important thing CC taught me was the lesson that most people miss until its college time: the person makes the school, not the other way around. A lot of you guys were Ivy hopefuls and were shot down, and some of you expected to get into 1-2 and got into most of your top choices. All I know is that if you work hard, you will succeed no matter where you are. I put together an application that 4 Ivy league schools felt was good enough to accept, and I went to a place where there have been zero Ivy-acceptances in its history. You can do great too.
The truth, however, is that its not about getting in; its about the process. I grew tremendously as a person because I aimed for the very top and did everything I could to get in. Its not an acceptance or a rejection letter that qualifies you. By even aiming for the very best schools, you have built a persona that will bring you success throughout life. MIT, my top choice, rejected me. So did Stanford, Princeton, and Harvard. It’s no big deal. It’s the person that makes the school, and I’m planning on doing great in life. You should too.
For the class of 2014: best of luck everybody! All the people I have met are terrific and will lead great lives. You are the best.
For juniors/sophomores/younger: Try to develop yourself and always improve. Do things that make you happy and schools will recognize you for it. Dont do what a school wants you to do. Keep focused on being a better person, and youll be good.
For parents/adults: Thanks for your presence here. A lot of you guys have terrific experiences and information that was very useful to me and its really nice to know that there are people rooting for you even though you dont know them. I really appreciate it.
With that, I have one final request. I wish more seniors would write things like this. I wish we had an entire sub forum right here called Senior Reflections. A place for people to post how their journey was, and to give advice to the future. If any mod reads this, please see if it can be done it would be really helpful.
I still have one month left to study for AP exams, but after that my high school life is pretty much over. Still, Im going to stay active on CC and help others through their journey. If anybody ever wants to talk, just shoot me a PM. Im here for you all like you all were here for me.
Yours truly,
An0maly