<p>coping with life right now....many people seeing therapists go to work, and make it through the days and making it through the days, having a purpose, having to Do Something often helps someone who has stuff going on</p>
<p>if the D can't find a job because of her illness, which we still haven't learned how much is as sooviet says</p>
<p>this isn't just as simple as not paying back a loan- it needs to be paid back by somebody, and the OP needs to contact the lender, that is financial stuff with contracts</p>
<p>as well, if you cancel a loan due to having a mental illness, that reason will follow you around, unfair as that sounds</p>
<p>creditors can pretty much come up with a reason to not grant credit, and if depresssion, or whatever is going on is given as the reason, it will be on the girls record somewhere, not fair- yep, wrong-yep, but probobally reality</p>
<p>to just worry about the $$ is not the best plan, for if D is just being lazy and not wanting to deal with life, then this won't get better, and if D CAN"T deal with life, the money is the least of the problem</p>
<p>You will have to pay, and we are talking more about just the $$ because this site also helps others</p>
<p>If D was indeed able to graduate and now, eh, is just stressed about stuff and playing up on the health issues, and acting bratty then the situation needs to be handled one way, and that includes the $$</p>
<p>If D has serious mental health issues, serious enough to not be able to function at all, not even volunteering somewhere, then the $$ needs to be handled by the Parents</p>
<p>Does the D do anything, does she leave the house, hang with friends, shop, read, if so, then she can at least find somethng to do, even walk dogs</p>