<p>I can actually see where you’re coming from here. My college was hyped up to be a GIANT party school and what-not, but the “private residences” that I lived in (because dorms were full) had a mix of all kinds of people.
I lived with three other roommates in a two-bedroom apartment and we were fine. Not the best friends, not the worst, just good roommates. We respected each other’s opinions and what-not, did what one asked the other to do and got along fine. </p>
<p>One of them did always lock himself in his room/eat food alone/be on his computer ALL the time. That didn’t stop me from branching out and finding different things to do or make different friends.
Here’s the thing: You don’t have social anxiety or anything. You just haven’t found anyone who’s similar to you. When you do (and trust me, you will), it’ll feel completely natural and normal. If you’re on a big campus, just try to make reasons to meet people and most of the time, you can just tell by talking to them for 2-3 minutes whether or not they’d make a good friend to you.</p>