<p>How is that lame?</p>
<p>They like their space, eating alone or internet or whatever. Maybe they don’t feel like socializing, or find the relationship not particularly of interest to them. Maybe they don’t want to be friends, or find you pushy or too social or something.</p>
<p>If those are their worst defects, you’re lucky. Very lucky. I’d count your lucky stars, and go about your life doing your own thing… at least they’re a few less people you’ll have to see/talk to every day.</p>