<p>We're at the beginning of the college search for my son, a junior (unweighted 3.5 GPA, weighted 4.0, 670Reading/590Math/530Writing). We've figured out the states he's most interested in (California, where we live; Northeast; Virginia; Northwest; maybe Wisconsin) and the subjects that most excite him -- history, creative writing and government. He knows he wants an intellectual environment and doesn't want a party school. His college counselor and I have made a list of about 25 schools we think might interest him.</p>
<p>But how do we narrow down that list? College town or big city? Small, big or medium school? We don't have the time or resources to visit all these schools in different parts of the country. And I'm not sure how valuable these visits are. We've toured a couple of schools already and yet neither really grabbed him. He was a bit bored on the two tours we took -- I can't imagine how he's going to feel after the 5th or 10th college visit. We look at university websites and virtual tours but they all look kind of the same with the videos of students saying how much they love their school and the lists of student organizations and the pretty pictures of the campus in fall or spring. I read these forum postings but it's hard to tell what's really going to be right for him. </p>
<p>I think he's feeling a bit overwhelmed by the whole process. He doesn't know what he wants. How can I help him?</p>