<p>I do live in the San Francisco bay area in a house that on paper is worth well over half a million (but obviously cost a lot less when I bought it almost 20 years ago). I also live on an annual income of less than $60,000, and I am sending my daughter to an elite private college where I get plenty of need-based aid but still have to pay 5 figures out of pocket.</p>
<p>I'd like to pay less, but it is not impossible for me to send my d. to her college. And my share is inflated by the fact that my d's father's income is included in the calculation, but he does not contribute -- so essentially I am paying the share of 2 middle income parents (he also makes ~$50K annually). </p>
<p>I am borrowing some, not all, of my EFC. I do have all that equity in my house, after all. This year I will be borrowing $6000. I looked at my finances and figured I could afford to pay $75/month. I also have taken some money out of savings and I have cut some expenses and used the savings to pay for college -- for example, I took my d. off the car insurance and switched her health insurance to a cheaper, high-deductible plan. And my daughter works and is taking on debt. </p>
<p>In the SF Bay Area, $75K annually is middle class. $200K is not -- it is upper income. Yes, the homes are expensive, but there is no law here requiring people to purchase homes. My son was living quite comfortably, on his own, in a beautiful apartment in SF, on an income of under $25K a year. Of course he didn't live by himself, he has always shared an apartment or house with roommates -- it costs about $500-$600 a month for a room in a reasonably nice shared apartment. </p>
<p>If I wanted to buy a different home, I would sell the one that I have -- and of course that would be the source of my down payment. If I thought I could save money that way, I might explore that option. However, because I live in an area where real estate values are on the low end of the inflated market, I prefer to stay where I am -- but with an empty nest, if I wanted extra income, I could consider taking on a rent-paying roommate myself. Obviously I could easily charge $500/month for my son's bedroom. </p>
<p>My observation is that people with $200K incomes who complain about finances are generally spending a lot more each month to maintain a lifestyle that is not particularly better than mine, but more expensive. They have opted to buy into more expensive neighborhoods, to drive more expensive cars. (I sometimes wonder if I am the only person left who still drives a car with crank up windows and mechanical locks.)</p>
<p>"Need" based aid is something that logically should go to the needi*est*. If the upper 2% think that they "need" help.... well, they just have to wait in line after the other 98% who clearly need more. </p>
<p>My question to the $200K earning family complaining about paying for college is two-fold:
1) How much did you save specifically for college?
2) How much are you planning to borrow?</p>
<p>If the answer to both questions is -0- -- well I am not going to shed any tears for them. Those of us who are truly middle income and sending kids to elite private colleges are prepared to sacrifice in order to get there.</p>
<p>On the other hand, my son has found the CSU system extremely affordable, especially after his first semester when his grades qualified him for a several very generous privately-funded merit awards. (He is paying his own way).</p>