Hello all. We currently have 2 in college already, and starting to get a little more serious about #3 as she is now in her sophomore year.
Right now, here grades are extremely impressive. Even as parents, she is exceeding our hopes in that regard. She is currently on pace for a 4.0W, 5.0UW. She took all honors courses as a freshman and killed it. So as a sophomore we pushed her to take 3 APs (including AP Bio, the toughest of them) in addition to several other honors courses, and she is still getting straight A grades. At this stage, with the right parental guidance, she may be one of those kids who has the ability to get into any college. At least a chance anyway. While I felt I really helped my older two girls achieve a great fit, top 30 college guidance is out of my area of expertise.
My main concern at this age is ECs. She plays soccer for the high school and also for a club team all year round. This is nice and all and itās what she enjoys, but I donāt feel it is quite enough. I read so many posts and articles about kids who nearly cure cancer as their EC.
I guess I am a bit skeptical when I hear about 14 year olds who on their own had the vision and the knowledge of how to start charities and spawn multiple chapters of it, or who put themselves in position to teach courses at a local library. It just feels like there were parents involved here to help push and drive the ECs. In addition, my own anecdotal experience with my older kids was that some of them had parents who made most of the EC magic happen.
My daughter pretty much does soccer for hours many days a week, and homework for her very tough course load is hours each day. She has a little bit of time in between all of this, but not a lot, so itās not like sheās wandering around thinking of what she can do for better ECs.
In terms of passions, she doesnāt have anything that strikes her. Sheās very good at math and science, but tutoring may not exactly be a super fancy or original EC. Sheās not interested in robotics (seems a popular one these days among many top student kids), or coding (sheās getting an A in AP Comp Sci, finds it interesting, but knows she will not go down that route). Not at all interested in drama/music/art (like my middle was). She also says she hates physics (which I find amusing since sheās never taken it, outside of a brief intro in freshman science).
Some things I think she has shown natural interested in:
Genetics/Evolution
AP Human Geography (she is loving this class, although she also loves the teacher so that may be it)
She does enjoy sci-fi movies (Interstellar was one example)
So my question is, the clock is ticking, where can one go to come up with good EC ideas that she can execute? Taking into account she not super extroverted. Sheās very good socially, but one of those kids that doesnāt want to give presentations in class or be bold socially.
As I see it, she needs to be going on this now, as she has the remainder of her sophomore year, the following Summer, and her junior year remaining for ECs. By the time Senior year is upon you, you are already applying so itās too late.
Do we consider one of those college advisors for money programs? For my older two that didnāt seem worth the cost. How do you spur a kid on for specific ECs who isnāt quite yet motivated (as a young sophomore who just turned 15 last month) outside of just playing soccer and doing all of her coursework well?
Thanks!