Hi! I think this might be my first post ever, although i’ve lurked for a while. My son is in 9th grade now, and is homeschooled. We live in Florida. He is a strong student, getting almost all A’s and one B. He is taking the majority of his classes through a rigorous online provider. He did so-so on his PSAT (qualified to take them early in 9th grade–need to dig out the score) but tends to be a perfectionist–he wants to take a study course to learn how to move more quickly.
He is advanced in Math, currently taking Pre-Calc in 9th and getting an A, and enrolled in an online AP Calc A/B course next semester. He is also great at Physics.
Here’s my issue, if it really is one. He’s a laidback guy. He loves and expects to do well, but doesn’t always put in the hours needed to do so. He is not, for lack of a better word, driven. Both parents went to Ivy Leagues and we don’t expect him to go to one (cost!!) but i think he must feel that pressure, somehow.
He doesn’t have a ton of outside interests, no matter what is on offer. He loves traveling, and does a lot with my husband (since he’s homeschooled, and DH is self-employed and travels the world for work, my son can go with him many times). He loves adventure and is always up for something new. But he rarely takes the initiative to pursue an interest. He doesn’t like reading that much, and I am concerned as next year he will be taking a challenging Classics course.
He almost always rises to meet the challenge, I have to say. But is this lack of iniatitive fairly typical in 9th? I guess I am just the concerned mom LOL.
He is looking at New College of Florida since it would be very inexpensive for us, and he definitely does better in a smaller, more collegial and less competitive atmosphere. He does martial arts, but otherwise prefers recreational sports. He is not a partier, likes to hang with just a few friends, and prefers an urban environment (we moved from NYC and he’s dying to return)
Any other colleges that might be a fit? Our homeschool college adviser thought of Macalester, Grinnell, Earlham, Carleton…but he is unwilling to take on a ton of debt and we can only help so much.
He doesn’t know what he wants to major in. He enjoys Math a lot, but he is not sure that’s what he wants to focus on. He enjoys politics, but again, not sure.
Am i thinking about this too early on in the process?