<p>So, lately, this girl that i'm really good friends with has been giving me this PMS-type attitude. Its been going on for nearly 2 weeks and i'm trying to understand why i'm the one who has to face it all. She doesn't give the attitude to any of her female friends...so is it just because i'm one of her close guy friends? We usually spend a lot of time together hanging out, but during the past couple of weeks its gotten rough. We keep bickering and she keeps giving me an attitude out of nowhere. Can someone please help me figure this out?</p>
<p>Doesn’t PMS last for about two weeks? You might be entering the “safe-zone” now.</p>
<p>oh really? I guess i’ll see what shes like after the weekend. Hopefully it’ll be over. I still don’t understand why I have to face the brunt of it though.</p>
<p>sounds like you are married to her. just kidding.</p>
<p>It could be her way of keeping from getting too close to you. She might like you a lot, but you don’t have similar feelings. If this were a TV show, the next time she blows up at you, grab her and plant a kiss on her lips. Note: I’m not advocating this.</p>
<p>Note: I stayed at a Holiday Inn last night.</p>
<p>LOL @ OperaDad. </p>
<p>Times be tough, eh?</p>
<p>Have you tried…asking?</p>
<p>i blow up on my best guy friend a lot… um, chances are she might like you as more than friends. and she might be kind of frustrated.</p>
<p>We always tell each other how we’re like brother and sister…so i guess i can see why she would feel really odd if she liked me. But i feel like the chances of her liking me are low, because we always talk about her guy issues and whatnot and she always tells me she isnt looking for a serious relationship with anyone. </p>
<p>I guess in the worst case scenario, I can do what OperaDad says to find out lol. Or even ask.</p>
<p>You should probably just wait it out, it could be over soon. Another reason she could be acting this way is maybe because she thinks you won’t understand what she’s going through (whether it be PMS or whatever). If she keeps acting like this a week from now you should ask her what’s up, or just don’t try to make plans with her unless she suggests it.</p>
<p>she wants you…nao.</p>
<p>I blew up at one of my close guy friends last week, and have been ignoring him and being mean because HE’S acting too close, not because i want to be closer. Seriously, just leave her alone, and let her come to you, don’t keep going to her, because trust me, it WILL annoy her incredibly.</p>
<p>“You know what, I don’t appreciate it when you act like ‘…’” Communicate that you won’t spend time with her if she doesn’t treat you well. Same thing for females to males - communicate that you won’t take crap, and the other partner will respect you more in the long run and find a different outlet for their crap. I know you aren’t in a relationship with her and may not be interested in that, but friendship is similar; put your foot down if a friend is trying to bring you down.</p>
<p>If she’s PMSing, let her PMS alone. Have positive interactions with her, and if she’s creating negative interactions, put your foot down. Be a person who isn’t affected by other people’s problems or negativity, but is willing to offer true support if it is needed.</p>
<p>This is why it’s so much easier to just be friends with guys. They never act like this.</p>
<p>the solution for all problems with girls is to hit it and quit it</p>