<p>I am your classic "I'm SOOOO proud of my daughter" parent. She is an excellent student (straight As her entire life, very high SAT scores and AP scores) as well as being the best daughter anyone could have ever ask for. Not a moment's worry has she given us her entire life. Well rounded, very deserving. Socially conscience, politically interested, very bright future. </p>
<p>That being said, she has been accepted to her top choices of colleges. (she chose NOT to even apply to DUKE or Harvard), and they are UNC-Chapel Hill in NC (our home state) and a very good private college in our area, Campbell University.</p>
<p>She has visited both, and UNC-Chapel Hill is wonderful and a top college nationwide, (as I'm sure you know) and by gosh I fell in love with it on our visit, but her heart is with Campbell. She loves it because it is smaller and closer to home and she can have her car there. They are also very good academically but not as well known as UNC-Chapel Hill. UNC-Chapel Hill's campus is very charming and there is just a wealth of possibilities there, but so is Campbell.</p>
<p>If the choice was simply what she likes better, it would be easy to decide, we'd just send her to Campbell. But there's more to it than that. She was a Moorehead-Cain nominee for UNC-Chapel Hill (a 15K a year school) which would have provided a full scholarship, but she, along with all the other nominees in our area, did not get it. There are chances for more scholarships there though but we won't know til spring. With Campbell (a 25K a year school), she qualifies (but not for sure if getting yet) the presidential scholarship which will award 12K a year.</p>
<p>But what it all boils down to is that if we send her to her first choice, we will more than likely fork out HUGE bucks for the private school and way less for the public, possibly even better school of UNC-Chapel Hill.</p>
<p>She deserves to go to the very best, to the one she wants to go to more than anything, but though we do make a good living, we don't have that kind of money saved up and it would be a great financial challenge for the next several years. She is wanting to go further than the 4 years of college as she wants to become a doctor.</p>
<p>Just how in the heck do you DECIDE what to do when something is so important? If she goes to a college that is not her first choice, I'm scared she will not be happy.</p>
<p>How do you make it all out?</p>