<p>I don't know how to say this. And I am very, very worried that some of you might think that I am joking or something. I'm very serious. Right now, I'm really, really..confused, disappointed, mad, sad, sick, depressed... My stomach hurts. I feel like throwing up.
The problem began at yesterday night. I was checking my email and found an email, sent by someone who had a same nickname as my best friend. I opened it. It was a spam mail, filled with x-rated movies!!!!!! What the hell!!!!!They were in Japanese. Well, I am sure porns are made in so many different counties and are not just made in Japan. However, now I can not even listen to some Japanese songs. There is a song called "miss you" by M-flow, I played it today, and it reminded me what I saw and heard!! It's awful.</p>
<p>I have seen many movies with beautiful love-scenes. But the one I saw was nothing like the beautiful one. It was torturing and hurting. Maybe I had been so ignorant that I didn't recognize this before. However, now that I know, I am terribly sad. I'm sad that some people actually watch those movies and that some women are participating in what degrades women the most. </p>
<p>I need a therapy, so badly. Could someone give me a warm message and encourage me?? (Mike?? could you do this as well as answering others' questions??) </p>
<p>What do you all think about these movies?? I specially want to hear what girls think. I know some people agree that sex-business works in this sick world. Do you think so, too?? If so, do you think there should be set-limit to it as well?? </p>
<p>I don't know if I can talk about this awkward subject here. If the first person who replies this post thinks I should erase this post, I will do that without a second thought.</p>
<p>I totally & completely agree with you... this world is sick. Porn should not even exist. It degrades women and it is just 100% wrong. You hit the nail on the head. Porn is evil, sex is supposed to be something beautiful shared between husband & wife, and these people are also degrading that special union. Yes, I agree it is very wrong. And the sex business might be a popular business, but it is so wrong and people who enjoy watching porn are sinning and need to repent. (I'm a Christian, can you tell? lol) But anyways, porn is horrible and I'm sorry to hear that it bothers you so much. You can probably talk to someone in person about this, too, if you have a trustworthy pal or family member. Love IS supposed to be beautiful, not torturing/hurting like you mentioned. That's so sad:( . I just hope those people realize what they are doing. You must be a person with very good morals and lots of courage to make this thread:) Good job. I hope my post made you feel better :) God bless <3 & never let this world get you down</p>
<p>well, thanks, laur808. I am not a Christian, but what you said really gave me strength. You said I must be a person with very good morals and courage. No, I not that good person. I'm just a average girl who found something I strongly disagree with. okay, I want to cancel this thread and I do not know how to do it. Anyone knows?</p>
<p>okay, well, maybe there is something I can do. I'm searching some info related with this issue. There are actually tons of clubs trying to prevent this stuff from children or even from young adults like me. Um, I can definately say that this small incident is going to change myself greatly from now on.</p>
<p>Thats awesome that you are looking to change the world for the better. That's a very admirable thing to do, & I'm sure you will play a big part in eliminating porn</p>
<p>No one is ever going to eliminate porn. It's ridiculous to even propose such a thing because it's been around in various form forover a hundred years.</p>
<p>1ST OF ALL LOLOLOLOLOL x infinity AT YOU THINKING YOU CAN ACTUALLY ELIMINATE PORN. SOME OF YOU CCERS ARE SO ANAL, SHELTERED AND ANNOYING; HOW ARE YOU GONNA SURVIVE IN THE REAL WORLD???</p>
<p>There's nothing wrong with porn, but i dont agree with it being pretty much forced on unwilling viewers through emails.</p>
<p>Um... you seem a bit sheltered. You've never seen any type of pornography? In today's day and age? That's a little weird. Honestly, you should get used to it a bit. </p>
<p>Remember, this is just fantasy. It's made to get people off and nothing more. People's turn ons are different. You like soft and cute love scenes, and other like hardcore S&M. What's disgusting to you is a lot of people's norm. </p>
<p>Whether people like to admit it or not, sex is a big part of peoples' lives. It's their right to watch porn if they want to. </p>
<p>What if sometime in the future you have a boyfriend that likes porn? It's completely natural. What're you going to do, break up with him even if he's perfect for you in every other way? That would be a silly thing to do. This is just an example. </p>
<p>Basically, what I'm saying is porn is here to stay. Getting used to it would be the best option.</p>
<p>I have a question, do you have eyelids? Can you turn your head? If this came up on your screen you should have closed your eyes, turned away or turned it off and not watched it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with porn when used to a safe degree by adults. The women in it are very well compensated and the business is to huge to bring down. Sorry but its time to get out of sheltered life and see the real world. People like sex, and some people like weird sex. Thats life.</p>
<p>haha, I'm not a feminist nor a sheltered "baby". I am no pure either (why should I reveal this anyway??). I am just average girl!! Ummmm, I never said I want to eliminate all the porns out there. It's impossible! I know sex has been the one of biggest business through the history. But I did not have to read that email and see something I did not want to see. To people who wanted to see porns, and the porns they saw gracefully! fullfilled their desires, that's great! However, the porn should not be sent to people who did't know it's coming and didn't want to see it. That's all what I want to say.</p>
<p>PS; please do not PM me and say, "what was that movie??" or "Could you send me that movie??" Otherwise, I am going to publish the nicknames from now on.</p>
<p>Alright, the first thing you have to realize is that other people choose to live different lifesyles and you must learn to respect those choices. Porn has never started wars or killed people, it has just been a sort of underground, behind closed doors, fantasy world, and isn't meant for everyone. In fact is a good thing you have been exposed now, because these things will show up later in life, and you will be able to prepare for them. People who go into the porn industry are people who want to be entertainers, just a different kind. </p>
<p>The United States as a whole has very screwy morals in itself. We are completly afraid of seeing a nipple on the superbowl, but won't hesitate in airing violent movies, television programs and even Cartoon programming (have you ever seen anime?) Europe does it the exact opposite, it is open about sex, but censors violence. </p>
<p>The key thing you must do is learn to say, these people made their own choices for reasons of their own (it is common for women that are in porn to have been sexually assulted as a child), but you decide your own fate.</p>
<p>You have to be thankful that you do have a choice NOT to see these things. Even if you're given an email, just close your eyes or close the computer window. I really think that should not be a big deal. Think about who has it worse...
Our armed service men in Iraq (and others around the world) who are basically forced to see things in REAL life that are MUCH worse...or you seeing bizarre pixel videos on your computer screen? There are much worse things in real life, and can really damage your mind (ie. post-traumatic stress disorder). So just as advice, you need to keep things in perspective.</p>