<p>I'm a junior in college and I've realized that all my friends from HS have remained close and party all the time when they're back on break but I don't relate to them anymore. I party at school and go out but it's not the same with them. I wasn't ridiculously close with them but I did like hanging out with them from time to time and now it seems like I've just lost touch with them. I would rather, watch the game than go out when I'm home because they seem just like they were in HS and I don't like that anymore.
Is something wrong with me? Sometimes I feel like a loser because my older sister is still close with her HS friends and they go out when she comes home. </p>
<p>You don’t have to be close to your high school friends if you don’t want to be. Some people lose touch when they move away and some people don’t. It just depends on the person. As long as you’re happy with your situation, then that’s fine. You don’t have to spend a lot of time with your old high school friends just because others do.</p>
<p>That being said, if you want to hang out with your high school friends, then there’s no reason you can’t get back in touch with them and catch up, even after spending a long time without any contact. But don’t feel like you have to just because other people are.</p>