<p>omg all this friend thing! so confusing...
ok so you went and asked this girl...behind your friend's back??
I think that's a no then. Sorry, but she's just trying to be nice...if she's not sure that's a yes...then it's a no, or will turn into one.</p>
<p>zant---lol from the other thread...i'm scared now...do you stalk me? :)</p>
<p>no,no,no...uve got it all wrong, lol...maybe i should've not used the whole friend thing</p>
<p>maybe this "girl" is really a transsexual afraid of getting caught.</p>
<p>ok, i like her...i told my friend i like her...he went behind my back and asked her out...she told him to buzz off...i asked her out, she said maybe...there, lol</p>
<p>LAgal, no I don't stalk you lol. I've just seen stuff you've posted before. And I have good deductive reasoning skills =)</p>
<p>I think the girl is actually a guy being asked by his friend who is really him? What?</p>
<p>Ooooh...
at least you didn't get a "buzz off"!!
I still think it's no though...if she's unsure...I mean, unless she's got other issues, like her parents telling her she can't date, then I think it means she doesn't like you enough, or doesn't know you enough. Why can't you go on a date first?</p>
<p>ok...this gal is signing off!</p>
<p>byee
thanks for visiting
come again! :D</p>
<p>ugh, lol, u guys didnt give me the advice i wanted :) i was hoping someone would say, "pound ur friends face in, and kidnap the girl...i'll gas up the jet, no one will look for you in Puerta Vallarta"....</p>
<p>keeeeding :)</p>
<p>I was going to say something like "This is why brass knuckles were invented" but if he didn't get the girl, that's a fair enough punishment. If that doesn't sate your thirst for revenge, you're going to have to get the girl (by whatever means necessary) and flaunt that fact around him constantly (and hope the girl doesn't mind being flaunted).</p>
<p>lol, thats a bit too harsh...all i want is for us to hook up, and live happily ever after....she's applying RD to princeton, so more incentive to turn harvard down, no? hahaha, i love that...i haven't even been accepted yet and i'm turning them down.</p>
<p>p.s. to all the harvard adcoms in the house, IM KEEEEEEEEDING</p>
<p>let it be known: slicmlic is KIDDING</p>
<p>(i don't think you got it across, heh :))</p>
<p>You say that all you want to do is hookup, but as I've learned (from experience, too many times), hookups are never balanced. Either you like her more than she likes you, or she likes you more than you like her (more common, I think, someone should do a study).</p>
<p>the thing is, maybe puts me in limbo...its like getting a deferral letter in the mail :( u think i should ask her to give me a clear yes or no answer? or is that pushing it</p>
<p>justforgetme: More likely for a guy to like a girl more I would say</p>
<p>No wayyy
I think more often girls like guys more/get more emotionally involved.
And legendofmax, I thought you were going to stop insinuating that you like me more! hmph</p>
<p>slicmlic, I think this is a good time for you to woo her, before asking her for a straight answer. I'm sure you can tell whether she likes you from her actions...those speak more strongly usually. Usually confronting a girl like that is reserved for if she's been playing with you or confusing you. She really just might not know right now! Try to seduce her lol.
And what exactly do you mean by hook up? If it's just physically, I must say, tsk tsk for wasting our time.</p>
<p>Slic-I wouldn't force it like that. Instead, I'd see if you can get her to have a real conversation with you about her feelings (maybe over coffee?). That way, you'd understand where she was coming from, and why she was hesitant (does she not like you that way and was trying to be nice? do her parents not let her date?). </p>
<p>Max-I disagree. Girls might be pursued more often than guys, but in a relationship, I think females get more attached.</p>
<p>I'm off for the night, the princeton board's been nice! Thanks for being so welcoming.</p>
<p>no,no...not physically....hookup=date</p>