So my girlfriend has been accepted and is considering going to Fordham LC campus for college. However, we are worried that I will not be able to visit her very much. I live outside of Boston, so it’s not hard to get to NYC, but once I got there I’d want to stay for a weekend or so, and it appears that as a dude, I cannot stay overnight with her. I can’t afford to rent a hotel every time I visit.
How easy would it be for her to have a male friend sign me in, then I’d go and stay in her room? How difficult would it be for her to be constantly getting guest passes for me to visit? I’ve seen stories that students are trying to get this ridiculous policy changed, is there any realistic chance of that happening soon? I’m very worried about the inability to stay overnight.