<p>Hello all,</p>
<p>I'm 25 years old and considering going back to school to complete the bachelor's degree that I never finished. </p>
<p>A bit about my backstory: I had a difficult time with college the first time around, not because of academic ability (I graduated high school with a 4.0 GPA, had high SAT scores, and went to a small state school on a full academic scholarship) but because of some personal problems I had at the time. I became deeply depressed, stopped going to classes and handing in assignments, and was "asked to leave." (That's a euphemism for "I flunked out.")</p>
<p>Since then, I've been pursuing a career in musical theatre, but I've come to realize that this path isn't for me for several reasons. I crave more stability than the life of an actor can provide for me, plus I've discovered that music and singing are what I love to do, much more so than acting is. I'm ready to go back to school to study music so that I can have both better training and more options as a performer, as well as an opportunity for a more stable, steady job that's still in the field that I love (the 'survival' desk jobs I end up in now make me want to throw myself off the roof of a very tall building.)</p>
<p>I'm mainly interested in pursuing either a double major in music education and vocal performance, or finding a music education program that focuses heavily on the performance aspect.</p>
<p>It's very important for me to find a school that will embrace the idea of accepting a student who is no longer a teenager. (I recently sang in a choral ensemble with a woman in her 30s who was attending a well-regarded conservatory school and was frustrated with the derogatory manner in which the instructors treated her.) It would also be helpful for me to find a school that already has an adjusted application process for adult students, as these schools are generally more willing to let personal background and experience outside of the classroom be a factor in their admission decisions.</p>
<p>I'm not planning on going back to school until Fall 2008, so I have plenty of time to make a decision on where I want to go, but I need suggestions and thoughts on programs that might be right for me.</p>
<p>I currently live in New Jersey, but I'm not averse to relocating -- although I would like to stay within a reasonable distance from any major metropolitan area. Right now, two schools that appeal to me are Rutgers and the University of Hartford. Any thoughts on either of those programs? How about other schools that might fit my needs? I'm kind of stumbling around blindly right now, and I need all the guidance I can get!</p>
<p>Thanks in advance for any comments or suggestions!</p>
<p>--RB</p>