<p>Funny story, marite... I've got my own story. A friend of mine's dad would pay for his college education ONLY if he went to school out of state. The dad wasn't trying to get rid of him, but wanted to be sure that his son was exposed to a different environment than what he was used to.</p>
<p>My kids both chose distant schools despite having some excellent local and in-state options. It made transportation and visits more difficult, but served to give both exposure to communities and cultures very different than what they grew up with. That's a good thing in most cases.</p>
<p>Conversely, I've seen many kids who went to colleges within easy driving distance from home who never made the big transition. They came home often for weekends, hung out with their HS friends, brought their laundry home...</p>
<p>One's undergraduate years are a special time - they are typically the first extended period where the student will have total responsibility for himself/herself. Getting up, getting to class, doing the work, making choices about drinking, drugs, etc., taking care of oneself when ill... Putting ample distance between the student and parents ensures that the student will handle this transition and develop those life skills.</p>
<p>While sometimes there may be a persuasive program to go close to home (great scholarship, unique program, etc.), I'd highly recommend students get at least a couple of hundred miles away if possible.</p>
<p>Note that finances could be an issue that is on your dad's mind. CU and NYU are costly schools, and your in-state deals may be substantially lower cost.</p>
<p>Possible reading for your dad: "Letting Go: A Parent's Guide to Understanding the College Years". It's a funny book, but has a huge amount of sensible advice for parents who are experiencing separation anxiety.</p>
<p>Ultimately, it's my belief that the college choice is the kid's decision. The parent should let the student know what the financial limitations are, and that choosing a more expensive school might mean making up the difference in loans. The parent can also provide advice and share wisdom accumulated in the real world. At the end of the day, though, it's the kid who will live with the decision for the rest of his/her life.</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
<p>P.S. Don't get too heavily invested emotionally in one or two ultra-selective schools. Because of the huge number of applicants and the small number of spaces, even students with near-perfect stats and great resumes get rejected. Fall in love after you get you acceptance letter. :)</p>