<p>Hope all are enjoying a relaxing afternoon….</p>
<p>BengalMom: We experienced a similar response with dorm shopping when my S went off to school as a freshman. Same reluctance/grumpiness (also "pretty ugly”) initially and then some engagement/interest in the selection/purchases. And then complete refusal to do anymore and leaving it to “I trust you” mom. Turned out that he really did care, as we put back many things when picking up at the BB&B at school. From that point on, he has taken complete responsibility for anything he needs. Once it became “real,” his maturity kicked in. You’ll be amazed how quickly your S takes charge when he needs to.</p>
<p>jc40: Also sending good wishes for your orientation/vacation. And hope the dreaded packing went well. Hope your D and family enjoy it all!</p>
<p>Momof3sons: I love the DS#1 story! When I was pregnant with D, my S (then a little over 2 yrs.) was asked by a relative if he wanted a brother or sister. His response, “I want a baby clown!” Okay….Though sometimes it has seemed like a circus, D would not fit that description. He did accept his sister with open arms (except when he asked when she was going back after about an hour of being home from the hospital). And that S will be 21 on Sunday! Where did the time go?!</p>
<p>YDS: So nice that your S got his first choice seminar. Even though you don’t have any of the other yearned for school info, let’s just take it as a good omen. ;)</p>
<p>Showmom: the tye dye sheets and comforter sound great. And YAY for making your reservations for your trip to the Big Apple.</p>
<p>RobD: Hope your H’s wisdom teeth extraction went well! No stories on that front here.</p>
<p>BT: Thanks for asking….though still really hot and humid here! It’s a definite day to stay indoors. Re: the late news about the Vandy reception/send-off, I agree with momof3 that it’s not BlessedSon’s fault if Vandy didn’t notify him, though I’d be having a similar GRRR moment, along with the requisite nagging. Sorry about the frustration. Though hope it all works out and that S enjoys the event.</p>
<p>I can identify with some of the frustration of not having “all the ducks in a row” re: aspects of housing, courses, textbook buying etc. D has her housing and roommate, though waiting to know of courses after registering (won’t know actual classes granted until sometime mid August – I think!).</p>
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<p>YDS: Good approach! Though my “need to know” has always prevailed in times of helpless uncertainty!</p>
<p>Shillyshally: Glad you are feeling somewhat better. Yikes about the wisdom teeth! And congrats on the comforter purchase. I LOVE coupon codes!</p>
<p>Momof2inma: CONGRATS to your S on his fabulous AP scores!</p>
<p>Acm: Hope you are enjoying a wonderful anniversary day and dinner.</p>
<p>Wishing all a great night! Stay </p>