<p>I’m the mom of a 2012 B student but our thread hasn’t seen much action lately so I’m lurking here…hope you don’t mind :)</p>
<p>My S is a 3.0 (actually just under, and that’s with As in a couple of music classes). He also has the optimistic “it will all work out” attitude, and a penchant for not studying or doing homework but saving himself from failure with good test grades and all-night paper writing sessions the night before big projects are due.</p>
<p>I am struggling with him now, who just brought home a just-under-3.0 first semester report card, with a handful of more competitive colleges taking it into consideration for admissions/FA. I have nagged and yelled and grounded all semester and it’s not working. (Though he has some acceptances form some nice schools already, we don’t have FA info yet so who knows what will happen).</p>
<p>Trying a different tack now. He’d been grounded for school days, and was coming home and not doing homework. Yesterday we negotiated a trial run of “if no homework is missing (we can check online), then he can do as he likes between school and dinner”. We’ll see how it goes.</p>
<p>As for books, I recently read one recommended on another topic here called The Blessing of a B-. More general parenting than college specific, but about teens. A very good read.</p>