@eandesmom Trust me, I understand… I can’t see either of my guys at school in the Dakotas, either. I actually mentioned a couple of schools out there to S15 where he could be near his cousins, and got a sideways eyeroll–too far away, too much of a cultural difference. As one example, he loves his cousins dearly, but they know nothing of lacrosse. I didn’t even mention schools out there to S17 as he thinks Albany is on the smaller side of where he wants to be…
@morningside95 I ALMOST went to SDSMT for chemical engineering and would’ve overlapped with your H. It’s a great school with great programs, but it would’ve been with a TON of kids from my HS class. It also would’ve been practically free for me back then since I was NMF, so the adult me is shocked that my parents agreed to help me out for MSU. I had scholarships there that brought the COA to instate MI tuition, but it was still quite a bit higher than my cost at a SD school. And MSU was just what I needed–I grew so much there, and went on to grad school, and found my niche within chem eng… This is part of what I hope for S17 if he chooses the leap of faith that going to MSU would be for him.
@mdcmom Buffalo was on both my guys’ short lists, and they were both accepted there, but something about the vibe on campus didn’t work for them. I know kids who are very happy there, though. I also know kids at Binghamton, too–the ones I know are very bright and driven. In my small sample size, it seems the better students choose Binghamton.
@Fishnlines29 I hope the Physics AP goes well for your daughter. I think this next month will be a blur for S17–mock trial competition, and then all his IB exams, plus the AP Calc AB exam, too–uggh!
@klinska Congrats on Dennison. I’m jealous of those who have decisions–I’m hoping S has the similar feeling of lightness when he finally commits.
@Brunoandbeansmom You know your son best, and he does have great options. However, I’d probably defer to his choice. It’s VERY common at my S’s school to go to CC for 2+2 programs, and several of his friends are doing just that. I know it wouldn’t save as much $, but some CC have dorms, so they can get a taste of life on their own. And the tuition is still lower than even instate university. Good luck to your S–I think he’ll be successful whichever way he goes.
S is slowly starting to feel better, and he’s working through the homework and reviews assigned over break–he finished calc and history and wants to finish on French and psych tomorrow. I asked if he wanted me to check over the calc, and he said, “Nope!” So I’m backing off. He seems more self motivated this quarter, so we’ll see how it plays out.