Parents of the HS Class of 2021 (Part 2)

Congratulations, @dannyalex123!

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Fantastic week for your S!!! A hearty congrats to him. :raised_hands:

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In the past I think it was common for some schools to share names of accepted ED students.

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I thought I would personally feel so bummed that S21 didn’t get into ED round 1. Maybe it’s because of deferral and the admission war isn’t lost yet, but I have to say that seeing how happy the kids and my fellow parents are, it’s helped.

I honestly thought I would naturally feel resentful towards parents whose kids got into my kid’s ED wishlist (natural human reaction, right?!) but I’m not.

Anyway, please share all the good news because it’s a long holiday break where we can’t go anywhere and it’s not like I can go shop for college gears for S21 and my parents. I had envisioned ā€œBrown Grandpaā€ sweatshirt for my dad. :joy:

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Article makes it sound like few schools even check and it’s really on the honor system. Too bad some take advantage of this, I really don’t believe they mistakenly do it.

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Congratulations to all those with acceptances and merit aid rolling in! So exciting to see.

Just stopped by to say that D was deferred from REA at Yale. She took it in stride.

On the flip side, she has been accepted to 4 out of 5 UK universities so far (Imperial, UCL, King’s and Durham). She is over the moon about UCL and Imperial. I’m curious if anybody has first hand knowledge of US student’s experiences at any of these schools for a full undergraduate degree. We’ve spoken to lots of people with semesters/years abroad but don’t know anybody who went for their full degree.

What a roller coaster this process can be :slight_smile:

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For CA folks, some news coming in about app numbers at UCs and CSUs

UCs up 15% overall, no individual campus data yet. The three least competitive campuses extended deadlines so I’m guessing the upper UCs had much higher than 15% gains.

CSUs down 5% overall with some extending deadlines again
CPP up 9%
SLO up 4%
CSULA down 10%
CSUN down 15%
Sonoma down 26%
San Diego, Long Beach, Fullerton no number but flat or up slightly.
No number for Stanislaus but I saw on the 14th they were down 31%

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Congratulations on all the acceptances to these great Universities!

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Yes, It makes me feel like honest and hard working students get cheated routinely by those kids who game the system. And we the parents should do something about it.

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UC apps up…Sounds like the story of my life. :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

So basically the same top colleges continue to get increased number of apps. :joy: This was not the year for reach college chances :slight_smile:

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I wonder if the CSU kids are opting for CC. My girl friend’s son left Cal Poly Pomona for community college to save money since it’s virtual.

Yes, I know I read something to that effect somewhere here or elsewhere.

I would think so, especially the commuter colleges where kids still live at home are opting to just start at a CC.

It seems odd that CPP is up more than SLO, but SLO has the least diverse campus and minority applications are down more so than others.

Scott Galloway’s thesis was the top schools would be fine (Ivies, Duke, Chicago, Etc). The middle would suffer because of the experience vs the value of $ spent. Then the CSUs of the world would skyrocket due to better value. So far, I’m not seeing any of this play out :slight_smile:

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Totally agree with how nice it is to hear of acceptances and big awards to posters and posters’ kids. We all need good news these days and it is meaningful to hear that sparks of joy are abounding somewhere!!!

Ironically, on our end, I think I was SO ready for ED decision day to arrive that now, the day after, my brain totally shut off the part that is focused on college. For example, while walking our dogs today, S said that he thinks he’s going to ā€œlook a bit more at Duke’s tonightā€.

I honestly thought he was talking about a new clothing site, or shoe brand or style, or a restaurant, or a friend who I’ve not heard of before (which would be odd). He looked at me and said, ā€œI’m talking about Duke Universityā€. And, I was taken aback as it THEN dawned on me that I was completely off track b/c colleges were SO far from my mind at that moment!!!

I don’t think I’ve been that far removed from thinking about colleges in months! It made me LOL.

B/c to be honest, I’m now like, whatever happens, happens. Wherever he wants to apply to still, fine. But I’m no longer as invested in the process and have clearly removed myself greatly from the emotional part of it after the disappointment of him being deferred (Brown) yesterday.

It’s actually a pretty refreshing, beautiful feeling!!!

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I’m with you! But come Ivy Day, I think I will get excited for the boys.

I have the UPenn essay I promised to review and my heart just isn’t in it. :joy:

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I saw this and it’s not great news for S, especially since they went test blind. It is consistent with what I’ve been hearing about the big, public flagship apps being up this year. I also have been hearing the despite all of the turmoil last year, the international applicants are showing up in good numbers after all. I really consider the UCs a total crap shoot.

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That is true. I will be excited that day! (I added it to the calendar last night. But that was the only one I added. I think I may just see how things unfold before I add any other possible dates?)

And, I’ve got a date to finish up some ā€œHomelandā€ binge watching on HBO Demand. :slight_smile:

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I would think the ratios if OOS and international will remain the same at the UCs since they rely on those students to be full pay.