@katliamom
We would never have to tell our kids no b/c the school is too expensive. Seriously, they would already know it and would discount it on their own.
My 16 yr old daughter is sitting beside me and I asked her how to explain that they wouldn’t ask. She shook her head and she said just can’t imagine expecting it. We are sending her to camp this summer and she feels guilty that she gets to go and her little sisters don’t get to go on vacation b/c of it. It’s a family decision. But, they have grown up this way. They know one decision completely impacts another.