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Drosselmeier, I agree with your. There's definitely room for growth within me. But I'm just not the kind of person who would sit down quietly with my mom and "hugs her and try to soothe her stress" --- although I totally understands my mom.
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<p>Yeah. I gathered all this. As I said, use your personality to get the same thing across to her. That's pretty much how I might do it because I communicate a lot through touch (only with those I love). But you may have some way to comfort your mom than is more meaningful to you both. Whatever you do, try not to leave her out there to fight this alone. Get in there and work this stress with her. If she feels you and she are united and that you will be just fine no matter what, she may just calm down. It worked for me.</p>
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So, I always try to reduce her anger by taking all of them within me, which works. But i often feel stress as the result.
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<p>I dunno. I know some guys who do this. Never share anything, take it all in. The disadvantages seem to outweigh the advantages as far as I can see. But that is just the way I see it. Whatever works for you.</p>
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That's all i gotta say, hope my mom doesn't see this post
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<p>Haha. I hope she sees it. :) I also hope you get into the school you want. Good luck, and hang in there.</p>