<p>Hi everyone. Before I go on to explain my situation, I want to let everyone know I ALREADY understand no one can answer this question with 100% accuracy. I'm looking for experiences of people who had a similar situation or just any information that I don't know about that you may be able to give me.</p>
<p>I started my first semester at a community college in the Fall. I took 13 credits. To make a long story shorter, here's what happened:</p>
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<li>My husband decided to leave our relationship a week before school. We are not divorced or even legally separated because money is tight and other reasons.</li>
<li>This triggered my Bipolar disorder. I had a mixed episode and it almost landed me in the mental hospital.</li>
<li>I'm in my school's disability program. I was supposed to get early registration as an accommodation, but didn't until the spring because my teacher specialist didn't understand autism enough. As a result, I ended up with 2 professors who I had severe communication difficulties with. One even tried to discriminate against me because of my accommodations.</li>
<li>Because of all of the stress, I was having autistic meltdowns a lot and could not function, and withdrew from two classes at first. I ended up withdrawing from all classes eventually. The last class I withdrew from was only at the 5 week mark. </li>
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<p>During this time, I didn't even think about financial aid. First of all, my school was late with everything, so I never received my pell grant. I had a fee waiver for poor students, and I was recently informed that won't be affected. I'm freaking out because I called the financial aid office, and the woman said I would definitely be suspended, and I might even get an F instead of a W? I withdrew from all classes WAY before the deadline, it's an official withdraw, and I had 3 A's and 1 B when I withdrew. </p>
<p>Now, I'm freaking out. I tried to look at the policy to see if I would be suspended or just given a warning first. I'm not sure if it's an automatic policy to just give a warning first or something. I'm treating this scenario as if I will get suspended, so I have a few questions:</p>
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<li><p>I only saw a school counselor 2 weeks into the term to talk about my issues. It's documented, but I never followed up because I was extremely suicidal and anxious. He recommended I withdraw from at least the 2 problematic classes if nothing changed with the professors. Would I need a note from him to prove I had extenuating circumstances? I told him I was very suicidal, coping in bad ways (drinking, thinking about self harm, about to to to the mental hospital, etc.)</p></li>
<li><p>I withdrew before the deadline and I had good grades when I withdrew. For anyone with experience, will this possibly be taken into consideration?</p></li>
<li><p>I'm autistic and I have accommodations. On my student education contract, it says specifically to withdraw from classes if I'm overwhelmed. Does it seem like this could be taken into consideration?</p></li>
<li><p>If I am suspended for the spring, and I have a successful appeal, does that mean I won't get aid again until the Fall, or will I be able to receive my pell at the end of spring?</p></li>
<li><p>I'm taking 16 credits in the spring. Part of my own little "action plan" is to be in therapy, on medication for my Bipolar, and take online classes to reduce anxiety. I will be seeing a therapist at the end of December. 4 out of the 5 classes are also online. Does it help to have this plan of mine? I think I will be fine now. I had my breakdown, and I'm usually a good student. </p></li>
<li><p>If I somehow just get a warning, would I get suspended at the end of spring? I had 13 attempted units that were all withdrawn. I now have 16 attempted units for the spring, and I will be passing all of them. One class, worth 3 credits, is the exact same class I withdrew from in the fall. The issue is I will just be shy of the 67.7% completion of cumulative units, even IF I pass everything and that retaken class is counted. If this helps, I'm also planning on taking summer classes. At least 10 units in the summer. </p></li>
<li><p>Has anyone been through this with a community college and just gotten a warning at first? What is your experience? Does everyone get a warning first, or does it depend on the school?</p></li>
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<p>I'm sorry I have so many questions. The lady at the financial aid office made it seem like it's going to be a for sure thing (suspension, not warning), but they have made so many mistakes with my questions and gave me false information already, that I don't know what I should be doing right now. AS OF right now, nothing is suspended. She said the "system" will catch it at the end of December and I will know. It would be helpful if everyone could only give me supportive advice and encouragement, as it took me a whole year to prepare for college and everything that happened has made me feel like a complete failure. </p>