So i have the option to get a private room or a room that i can share, but here’s the catch: the private room is a little more than 6’ by 6’, it doesn’t have a closet and there’s not even a desk…but the one where i share is pretty normal-sized and it’s cheaper. the private room used to be a storage closet. i love my space. i’m super ocd but i’ve never had a roommate before. what should i choose??
I think this decision comes down to two things: cost and being honest with yourself. Cost is the primary factor. If you won’t break the bank either way, then this decision gets a lot easier. If you will, then it makes more sense to go with the shared room. I also need my space, and I probably would opt for the private room if I could afford it, considering the closet-sized space and all. The best thing to do is probably to make a pro and con list.
Some questions to ask yourself:
- Is the decision I’m making cost-effective?
- Would I mind if my roommate was in the room often? If they invited people over?
- Would I feel lonely if I was in a room by myself?
“the private room used to be a storage closet”
Has that room been converted into a legal, fire-safe bedroom? If not, don’t live there.
Have you discussed your rooming options and how that would affect/be affected by your OCD with your therapist? If not, have that discussion now.
A storage closet? Is there a window? This sounds very weird and pretty awful.
Are you being treated for your OCD? That seems a better solution, if I’m being honest.