<p>I second Sarum’s recommendation for the book - Boys Adrift. An excellent book for parents of boys that seem to be heading in the wrong direction.</p>
<p>I also agree that I would not send a boy away to a BS when he may already be drinking. I have 2 sons at an all boy’s school and drinking is definitely available to those that are looking. Anything that is available at public school is available at BS.</p>
<p>I keep reminding myself and my boy’s that it is still high school. Albeit with gorgeous facilities, more choices, etc… but high school all the same!</p>