<p>How many days in advance should I ask a girl? </p>
<p>Prom is this Saturday. Would asking tomorrow be considered too late?</p>
<p>Dude, she has to buy a dress. It might be too late.</p>
<p>ASK HER NOW. But make it a no pressure thing, because you’re way late. </p>
<p>For reference, I had my date lined up in mid March and everyone was pretty much set by early April. </p>
<p>Also, you gotta order a corsage (which it might be too late to do), get a tux somehow, dinner reservation, transportation, buy tickets, etc. Get on it now.</p>
<p>Yeah, way way to late. Are you sure she doesn’t have a date yet? Was she planning to go (like in a group of friends) anyways?</p>
<p>Typically, 2 weeks in advance is normal but you might be okay if she was already planning to go, and somehow you can source a tux</p>
<p>Eh kind of. Although I did only buy my dress yesterday, even though it’s in Friday.</p>
<p>But you are putting a lot of pressure on her. :/</p>
<p>Ask her! As long as you know she doesn’t have a date… she’d more likely than not be happy to go with you.</p>
<p>But get on it fast :)</p>
<p>^ thanks. She doesn’t have a date. In fact, she’s a Junior.</p>
<p>Oh damn, lol. It’s really late. Most people ask weeks in advance in order to finalize plans and ensure everything’s in order.</p>
<p>If she can find a dress soon, and if you guys don’t have any major planning to do for pre- and post-prom events, then it shouldn’t be too bad.</p>
<p>Hmm. I suppose I won’t ask if it’s too late.</p>
<p>lol ask her on CC, make a thread</p>
<p>Don’t ask her!</p>
<p>If she already has a dress, and doesn’t have plans (and you can figure this out before asking and making it super awkward) it couldn’t hurt to ask. However, most guys at my school ask two weeks to even a month before hand…It sort of plays off rude to ask late, but it really couldn’t hurt.</p>
<p>most guys who post Should I ask her? posts dont have the balls to actually do it</p>
<p>^ I suppose. But originally I wasn’t planning to go, but realized I might regret not going.</p>
<p>But now it’s too late which was why I wanted advice to see if I should ask.</p>
<p>If it is rude, which it probably is, then it’s probably best I don’t ask.</p>
<p>Maybe you should ask…just so you don’t regret not doing so. The worst that could happen: she’d say no. It may work out?</p>
<p>^ I’m afraid she’ll say yes and then get stressed out because of all the stuff involved.</p>
<p>I mean, she would have to get a dress before I could rent a tux to match her. And would I even be able to rent a tux by Saturday?</p>
<p>Then I gotta get a corsage, and the whole transportation thing…</p>
<p>I kinda screwed myself over on this one.</p>
<p>Aha. Yeah, you may be right. Well here in my small town in LA, the guys were able to rent their tuxes just a few days before (but I don’t know if that is the norm everywhere). A corsage isn’t always a huge deal to handle but transportation could be really iffy. Are you thinking limo? Or like what, can’t you use your car/parent’s car/something like that?</p>
<p>And yeah, she’ll definitely get stressed…but I think all girls get stressed getting ready for prom.</p>
<p>You think the tux thing might be an issue though? Would they have tuxes in the store I could rent, or would they have to get it from elsewhere?</p>
<p>You should ask her. Might get stressful, but years down the road it’ll just turn into an amusing story to tell :)</p>
<p>@Derivate: I’m a chick, so I don’t really know. However, I’m pretty sure there’ll be tuxes in a store to rent. The guys are my school got their tuxes are the last minute, and five proms were going on in our town for the same night. I honestly think you’ll be okay. Just ask her before you necessarily have to work out all the kinks.</p>