@crimsonmom2019 I completely agree with your last paragraph. When society and the parents of the kids not being treated “fairly” stop making it seem like, as you put it “only certain schools are worthy”, we might actually start to get somewhere in this debate.
I have so much to comment on based on the last 15 posts or so.
@yalewhale first of all, if Yale accepted you, you deserve it. Don’t look back. They don’t want students to fail and if they thought you were not Yale material, they would not have accepted you. Did being black help? I would say yes, but so what?? I’m not sure exactly how it works in Yale admissions (and all of those other great schools), but you may have only been competing with other URM’s or perhaps only other blacks. Your score was good enough, and I bet there are some blacks that had a 32 that did not get in. Your accomplishments are phenomenal. Just promise us one thing…when you graduate, please try to make this world a better place, OK?
@Teslalaland I agree with a lot of what you said, that AA is often helping the wrong URM’s, especially when we are talking about the top 20 or so universities, But as you said, the achievement gap between the URM’s in the “right” communities (the ones that AA should be targeting) would be too large, generally speaking. BUT, and I think @yalewhale was kind of getting at this, there is a less tangible disadvantage for URM’s, particularly blacks in my opinion (and I am white, as are my three children) and that is the fact that many URM’s will face discrimination throughout their lives simply because they are black. We’ve all seen it and we cannot deny it. Again, especially with blacks in my opinion. So yes, there are blacks getting in to U of Chicago and the Ivies that may have gone to prep schools and they may have been held to a bit of a lower standard than their white and Asian peers, but HOPEFULLY these “advantaged” blacks will graduate and become the role models the African American community so desperately needs. IMO, more role models in these communities or even just in the media would create more hope for the URM youth. So while yes, it would be best if AA helped the URM’s that were also economically disadvantaged (and it often does), it still helps society, IMO, if we can get more URM’s through the elite school system in the hope that this will benefit society also.
And I do think the really elite schools can sniff out the difference between the URM’s that really need the bump, and the ones that have led very privileged lives. I don’t know much about Questbridge, but doesn’t that target URM’s in poorer communities???
Like any system, AA is not perfect. But we need it. Otherwise, our top schools would not properly represent our increasingly diverse nation. Assuming our top schools are creating the leaders of tomorrow, we need to have all communities’ voices heard. So while a black that grew up in Scarsdale, NY and went to a fancy NYC prep school (probably aren’t many of those) may not truly represent the voice of the more typical African American, they might still have a connection that the rest of us cannot identify with because we are not black. And if that African American grows up to be president, or CEO of Goldman Sachs, or a host on NBC News, well then, we have shown the world that it can be done. I’m hoping that Barack and Michelle have proven this point (especially Michelle who really did it all the hard way, she is one amazing human). It’s going to take some time…but we cannot give up.
@theloniusmonk I know I certainly questioned Bush’s acceptances to college more than I did Obama’s…but I’m sure there are many misinformed people out there that see it the other way around. Unfortunately. But very good point.