<p>Oh it’s okay haha. “He’s been trying really really hard and it just seems like I don’t care” that sounds like something I said to a girl recently (that I was friends with AND was interested in).</p>
<p>Yikes. What did she say back to you? (I didn’t get a chance to say anything to this guy. He was yelling it to me as he walked to his car.)</p>
<p>Well it’s kind of complicated haha so long story short she just left for college so she’s been kind of distant but she told me that I was mistaken and she’s just been busy. </p>
<p>Are you interested in him at all? Or not?</p>
<p>I think I am. I definitely get nervous around him and when I get nervous I get snappy. Probably part of the reason why he thinks I don’t care…</p>
<p>You should try to put in effort to talk to him too, but not too much. Allow him to buy you gifts and hint subtly that you would like to go somewhere and see if he invites you to go with him. Hook line and sinker</p>