<p>ha can't believe i'm on here asking for advice about this..</p>
<p>but um a few weeks ago. one of my really good guy friends told me that he liked me and i told him i liked him. and he said he was going to ask me out after prom bc he didn't want to make our dates uncomfortable at prom. we hung out once and legit for 5 minutes bc i had to go to practice. he tried to make out with me the whole time and i was like i can't i have to go to practice my coach is crazy.. blah blah blah</p>
<p>and then the next day we got into a fight about how i don't really trust him i guess. and i lied to him about telling my friend about us, because i told him i didn't tell her. but he didn't think he could trust me because i told a little white lie. so then we were fighting for a couple days.</p>
<p>then he's just like "let's be friends" and i'm like ok. and during that time he told my friend that he likes me but he wants to "build our friendship" because we were fighting.. even though we've been wicked good friends for about 3 years.</p>
<p>and then saturday night after prom we were at a party together. he didn't try to do anything with me, but we sat in a chair together for a while and he had his arm around me.. i didn't really think much of it, but i was like ok maybe i still have a chance with him, despite all this stupid drama.</p>
<p>and then last night, i texted him.. i was like i still like you. i don't know if you want all of that still, but i do. he's like "no, i'm sorry our friendship is too important". and i was like "you told my friend that you still like me.. do you" he's like "yeah i do like you but look what it's done to our friendship already" and then i go crazy on him telling him that his logic is crazy and i swore a few times at him because he was making me really mad.</p>
<p>and now he won't reply to any of my text messages. i IMed him and he blocks me. and yeah i'm seriously frustrated because he means a lot to me and i don't know what to do?</p>
<p>and if you took the time to read all of this and can give me any advice, thank you :)</p>
<p>hahahahah are you serious? why dont you talk to him in school? say you think you guys are past the friendhsip part and you guys have to work to make the relationship work</p>
<p>Believe it or not, guys take trust just as seriously as girls in many cases. When you betray our trust, we find it hard to believe everything you say, just as you would to us. It’s obvious that he is having trouble deciding whether to attempt to preserve your friendship or take it to the next level. You have to decide what you feel is most important to you and take it from there.</p>
<p>and bartnawer… yes i am serious. and it’s not like i’m going to talk to him in the middle of math class about this whole situation. so that’s why i’m not bringing it up in school thank you</p>
<p>Take it slow. It seems to me that he currently thinks you are a slut who just wants some. You have to earn that trust back. He doesn’t want to ruin the friendship by rushing into a relationship.</p>
<p>I think you should definitely slow down and not rush to start a relationship with him. Because sometimes, a friendship will last a lot longer than a serious relationship. Just saying.</p>
<p>I would move on, if I were you. He doesn’t sound like a good person for a real relationship. If he is trying to get that far in five minutes of hanging out, it clear what is at the forefront of his mind, and unless you want that, keeping him as merely a friend is the most intelligent thing to do about the situation.</p>