<p>So i am sophomore right now living off campus as most non freshman do.
I live in 2bed apartment and share a room with a random guy i met last who is totally cool.
Initially i had another person living in the other room as single, but she moved out and transferred her lease to 2 kids from a community college. The 2 kids just moved in yesterday and already the kitchen is a mess. They blast music all night and leave the lights on. I asked them several times to turn down their music because i was trying to sleep. They could easily plug in head phones, but choose not to. They already brought a trashy girl over to hangout. I mean come on, it's your first night here and you already made a mess of the kitchen? Finals it coming up for me and my roommate in the next few days and we are trying to study, but all the other two do is blast music all day and night. My roommate who usually studies in the living room on his table is now studying in our room because his table is dirty and just a mess from those 2 new guys. The living room reeks on a weird smell and is a mess because a lot of their stuff does not fit in their room. They took up about 75% of the living room with just their clothes/shoes/etc. I'm not even sure if they go to college at this point. They did not know the original girl that lived with us. I understand that it is their room and they are allowed to do what they want, but i figured that living with roommates means you have to be respectful of their needs too (studying for finals). I'm planning on doing summer school and have 2 months on my lease left. I can't stay here. The environment is just making me miserable. I already found friends to live with for next year, but we can't rent a place till late July because our current leases end in August and we can't afford the overlap. I'm really lost here. What should i do?</p>
<p>They just threw a party on their first day here. Drinking and blasting loud music. They didn’t even ask if i was ok with it.
Seriously, I’m so lost here. What should i do?</p>
<p>Have you talked to them face-to-face about this? In college my roommate would stay up until 5am watching tv, blow drying her hair, eating, etc. WITH the light on! Some people can be really inconsiderate, even though they are sleeping 5 feet away from you. I never really confronted her on it because I desperately wanted “friends” (which we never were).</p>
<p>Suggestions: 1) ear plugs or noise cancelling headphones, 2) eye mask.</p>
<p>I understand how upset you are, though. You’re in a tough position. I would suggest having a “roommate meeting” and creating a chore chart. If they want to trash their own bedroom, ask if they can leave the door closed.</p>
<p>Sometimes, people can be very immature. College is 80% learning how to interact with different types of people and gaining social maturity and acceptance of diversity. All 4 years of college I lived with different types of people and you have to learn how to adapt. Did you know these guys were huge party-ers when you accepted them as roommates? In addition to a chore chart, I would suggest you ask them to plan out when they’re going to invite large amounts of people over so you can have the chance to escape to the library or wherever. If those suggestions don’t work, do you have any friends you could crash with?</p>
<p>I did not know them prior to them moving in. Originally a girl lived in the other room, but she suddenly moved out and told me that these two guys were taking over her lease. We actually don’t share anything and they don’t mess with my stuff. They cleaned up after the party, but i just don’t want to be in this type of environment especially since i am trying to focus on school. We all do our own chores. I use and wash my own dishes and so do they. They clean the living room because they are the only ones using it. My lease is over in 2 months. Should i just stick it out? I’m not too sure what my options are since legally i signed the lease to live here for 1 year. (2 more months)</p>
<p>when you share an apartment with other people this happens, when you get two random people move into your apartment it just makes it even more likely to wind up with serious issues. it is no different then going onto the street finding the first two random people and having them move in. you should get another apartment with your roommate that you appear to get along with. take this as a learning lesson in life .</p>