<p>lol, I like how a 'life long UVA fan' supports Duke basketball. Go to VT, please, you'll fit well in there (especially since their program sucks again).</p>
<p>Just because I'm a lifelong UVA fan doesn't mean I can't support Duke basketball. Most of my family members have gone to either Duke or UVA. There's no rule that says you can only support one school. Actually, after reading this thread, I'm kind of glad that Duke is my first choice. I'm not sure I'd want some of you as my classmates-I know that most UVA students aren't like this, but come on...</p>
<p>dukkebball23-well you shouldn't use a few message board posts to generalize a university. There's no reason to get invested in what goes on in a message board, most people filter through getting information they need that's all. </p>
<p>The stigma that uva students are elitist always boggles my mind, every school has them. There will always be students you don't want as your classmates and that applies at the university level.</p>
<p>You must remember that CC'ers aren't your typical students and I don't mean that in a positive or a negative context.</p>
<p>regarding the thread, safety is always an issue everywhere and I definitely feel safe around grounds.</p>
<p>Yes, Protean, I agree that you shouldn't generalize a university from a message board. I wasn't trying to do that... my comments were directed specifically at the people posting on this board. This board itself sometimes comes across as elitist, but I know that most kids at UVA are nice, down-to-earth people (my sister and brother go there, as well as a number of grads from my school because I'm instate). I was just trying to point out how silly and stupid this whole argument is-- people can say some pretty hurtful things. This certainly won't make or break my decision if I were to get into UVA, but it's one of those things that will always be in the back of my mind, as well as the minds of other people who have read this thread, if you know what I mean. </p>
<p>Sorry for the confusion!</p>
<p>Aw dang, Cav, we're back to being elitists :(</p>
<p>Hey, now, I said sometimes. Not all of you :)</p>
<p>My point was that I wish that sometimes people would think before they post things online. It's so hard to get across what you're trying to say and people misinterpret things easily. I'm guilty of it on both ends just in this thread alone. I was just trying to point out something that I had picked up on, but I'll just leave it at this. Sorry to everyone I may have offended... I truly didn't mean to personally attack anyone, but I just felt like I should voice my concerns. I now realize that it obviously wasn't my place to do so, nor was it welcome. Again, I apologize and I wish you all the best at UVA and in your futures.</p>
<p>dukebball23-
I appreciate your comments. I think they're honest and perceptive. Thank you for a thoughtful attempt at saying what I believe others are thinking too..but reluctant to write. As a mother of a 3rd year at UVa, I have also been unnerved by many of the recent comments made by UVa students on this board. Ongoing ridicule, condescension, and sarcasm make this site particularly discouraging to visit...
CC is an invaluable tool to help people--not to discourage them by making them feel that they are stupid or lesser in some way because they are without the superior knowledge, correct career priorities, or other necessary credentials to be welcomed here.
All of the students at UVa that I have met thru D are well rounded, fun loving, smart, lucky! kids. With siblings at the school, I am sure that you are aware of that.
I thank you for telling it the way you see it, dukebball. I hear ya.. And best of luck to you.</p>
<p>Now..back to safety?!</p>
<p>so ok, i've already shared my strong positive feelings in the beginning(before War of the Worlds)about UVA's safety. i though i'd lighten things up for the combatants by asking if they saw the thread entitled, "Ugly People in Philly"!!! ha! JUST LOOK HOW THEY SPELL PHILLY! ;)</p>
<p>There was thread started w while back re: sexual assault at UVirginia that had some interesting commentary. The link for the rape stats is <a href="http://www.ope.ed.gov/security/main.asp%5B/url%5D">http://www.ope.ed.gov/security/main.asp</a> I believe there were something like 20 rapes/yr for 2003-2005, which seems very high to me.</p>
<p>i seem to remember during a sapa talk (sexual assault peer advocacy) that alcohol was involved in a large majority of all sexual assault/rape cases. so i don't think it has anything to do with cville at that point. i think it is comparable to any other university with 12,000 kids.</p>
<p>we get emails like this quite often. i found this pretty hilarious myself (basically saying, 'i know you're going to get drunk, so please try and be smart about it')</p>
<p>
[quote]
From: "Patricia M. Lampkin, Vice President Chief Student Affairs Officer" <a href="mailto:vpsa@virginia.edu">vpsa@virginia.edu</a>
Subject: Celebrating Halloween and other activities with safety and caution
Date: Fri, 26 Oct 2007 13:24:49 -0400 (EDT) </p>
<p>Dear Students:</p>
<p>This coming week marks a time when student safety is of special concern to me and many others within our community. Halloween comes in the middle of the week, and a home football game takes place on Saturday, Nov. 3. You are
dealing with the pressures of midterms and looking forward to the Thanksgiving break. The weather is changing, and darkness comes sooner in the evening.</p>
<p>All these factors, either individually or in combination, may pose situations where you or your friends take risks that you normally would not take. I encourage you to be smart, to think about your personal safety, and to take some simple steps to be safe, especially if you are celebrating.</p>
<p>A few reminders:</p>
<ul>
<li><p>If you plan to attend costume parties, go in a group with other people whom you know and trust.</p></li>
<li><p>Recognize that alcohol influences decision making and judgment. If you are intoxicated, you place yourself at a much greater risk for injury, unwanted sexual contact, or a citation from the police. Set a drink limit for yourself and stick to it.</p></li>
<li><p>Avoid wearing a costume that inhibits or restricts your ability to see or run. Some people may take advantage of being unrecognizable in a Halloween costume. Make sure you are in an environment where you can easily get help or get away from someone who is threatening your safety in any way.</p></li>
<li><p>Use special caution when crossing the street or riding a bicycle. Do not let yourself be distracted by music or a cellphone conversation. Make sure motorists see you before you cross.</p></li>
<li><p>If you accept a beverage from someone, make sure that you know the individual, you have observed the drink being prepared, and you never leave it unattended. Exercise caution in any public setting with any beverage.</p></li>
<li><p>Make a plan to get home safely. If you do not have a sober driver, know that the UTS buses run until 3 a.m. on Friday and Saturday. You can also call Yellow Cab at 295-4131, charge the ride to U.Va. and be billed
later that month -- no questions asked.</p></li>
<li><p>Always carry photo identification and make sure your friends carry identification and phone numbers with them in case they become incapacitated for any reason.</p></li>
<li><p>Remember never to leave an intoxicated friend alone and do not hesitate to call 911 if medical attention is needed. Students will not face reprisal for seeking help.</p></li>
</ul>
<p>Enjoy the weekend with your parents if they are coming for Family Weekend, and best wishes for a safe and happy week to follow.
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</p>
<p>I don't think it is hilarious at all. Each point has it's merits. I have a lot of friends who are doing some pretty dumb things. I hope they take note of these warnings. I sure do.</p>