Hi, I am a senior in college and have to do a financial aid appeal. Unfortunately, this is not my first appeal. I had to appeal due to severe depression, major medical illness and homelessness in the past. I am NOT asking for sympathy; I know there are students who have been through worse than me and got degrees. I have made a lot of progress from my freshman year, but I have failed in places as well.
I absolutely cannot pay for college out of pocket, and as a senior, my local community college doesn’t have any courses remotely related to my major that I could take and try to pay for out of pocket. I could just take a random course, but that is my absolute worst case scenario because I’m not sure how I could pay for it and I’m trying not to take up anymore time in school. Not including the courses I’m currently signed up for, I have 19 hours left - three semesters, unless I can convince my college to allow me to take more than the maximum hours in the summer or take certain courses concurrently.
I initially planned on transferring to a different school after failing this past semester, but I only applied for one school at the time and they did not accept me because they calculate GPA differently from my school and I didn’t meet the requirements. I’m going to appeal at my school again, and I need advice on whether or not this is acceptable.
THIS IS NOT THE APPEAL LETTER! Just a summary:
The main point of my appeal is that I got involved in an abusive relationship with an alcoholic midway through the semester. I felt I was doing well in school but very empty in my personal life, and ignored red flags in school and the relationship until too late. With school, I genuinely believed I would pass all my coursework up until finals week. By that point, I had already certainly failed two courses, so I needed B+ to B’s in the rest of my courses, and I only got B-'s. I didn’t drop the failed classes because I wouldn’t meet PACE and again, I thought I would make it out okay in the end.
With my relationship, the binge drinking got out of control quickly. I have photographs of extensive damage to my property from fights, recordings of verbal abuse, text messages between me and friends (who live far away) talking about the situation and feeling unsafe, a chemical evaluation my partner did, and records of AA meeting they attended. I am also attending AA meetings myself now as someone who was addicted to an addict, and have records of that. Finally, I recently got a low key, work from home job that offers EPA so I can go to therapy again. I am considering going to the same therapist I went to years ago to see if they would say I’m better or worse than before. I also might start with someone new since I have had new issues since that time. I also did attempt to go to therapy at my school during all of this but the mental health facility was booked for the ENTIRE semester; I am not exaggerating. They only recommended the support hotline. I don’t have any evidence of physical abuse or the few times contacted the police.
My plan going forward is regular therapy, AA meetings, taking writing-based/less strenuous (for me) courses, and keeping positive habits I made in the past (study groups, reaching out to professors early, doing extra credit, going to class. I plan on mentioning the courses I improved in, how I have a high GPA in my minor which I’ll be finishing this semester, and that I’m close to graduating.