<p>Upon seeing her SAT scores, my daughter’s mood plummeted to something just short of despair. I don’t think they’re awful, but since they’re under 2000, she is quite unhappy, particularly since they don’t come close to the range she needs for some of her reach schools. The fact that she’s in the score range for automatic scholarships at two of the schools on her list didn’t impress her in the least, since they are her match/safety schools.</p>
<p>On the looonnggg drive to school (nothing like a depressed teen to add miles to the drive!), we [mostly me] talked about what her next step should be. I gave her several options to consider:</p>
<li><p>Since she’s taking the ACTs in June, prep like crazy before finals and wait to see that score.</p></li>
<li><p>Do some prep for the ACTs but mostly focus on finals and plan on retaking either the SAT or the ACT in the fall.</p></li>
<li><p>Rethink her list of schools, keeping the reaches but finding several more match schools.</p></li>
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<p>I thought I was presenting very realistic approaches (a combination of which is probably necessary anyway), but my daughter needs more time to shake herself out of her funk. In some ways, I think this characterizes the differences in our approach to, well, everything. As someone who never met a standardized test she didn’t like, I’m a very linear, problem–>solution kind of thinker. My daughter is more of a feel the problem, write some angsty poetry or compose a sad song, decide life is worth living problem-solver (I exaggerate, but I hope you get the picture.) She’s consistently described by her teachers as a creative thinker, but she’s also fairly driven to excel. </p>
<p>I also told her that I really don’t want this process to become about the score game, because I think she has a great deal to offer IF a school is looking at the whole person. But, she also needed to be aware that at some of the schools, the scores are going to be enough of a red flag that the rest of her application would need to be extremely well done…and that ultimately, it’s her choice as to how score-focused she wants to be. Didn’t win any popularity points with those observations, but I tend to tell it like I see it.</p>
<p>Other than giving her some time and space to work through her feelings, is there anything I can/should be doing? In the meantime, fairtest.org here I come…</p>