Say it here cause you can't say it directly- the get it off your chest thread (NO REPLIES TO OTHER POSTS)

Well this development is the worst one yet. I know you will bounce back but it is exhausting

DS aged 25 finally got his drivers license a few months ago. He didnā€™t and still doesnā€™t really need one because he has been living in major cities with great public transit. Heā€™s been living with me since December due to covid and I added him on my car insurance, holding my breath to see what would happen to my rate. My insurance bill actually went down! Woohoo!

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Within the past seven days, THREE acquaintances have told bold-faced lies, one of them about me and quite serious. What the heck is going on?

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Hey, we all have our own opinions. But if you have been spouting about how itā€™s not a big deal, you need to get to the back of the line.

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Hit F8. Select ā€œlast known good configuration.ā€ Too darn bad it only works for Windows.

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This is awful. My 50 year old friend in NY was feeling very sick last week so her H took her to the hospital. She does NOT have Covid. She was recently diagnosed with MS. Due to the hospitalā€™s Covid safety protocols, he had to drop her off and hasnā€™t been allowed in to see her. She hasnā€™t been able to talk to him because sheā€™s so heavily sedated. The first day there the Dr let H know that she has sepsis and that her kidneys and liver are failing. So obviously sheā€™s in tough shape and her H is worried about her. For the next 2 days the doctor wouldnā€™t return his calls, and the only information he was able to get about his wife was from the duty nurse who was only able to tell him that she was resting and receiving palliative care. Yesterday her H was told (Iā€™m not sure by whom) that his wife was transferred to the ICU and is on a ventilator. They still wonā€™t let him come in. I donā€™t know who Iā€™m feeling worse for, my friend who is struggling for her life, or her husband who is desperate to see his wife and hold her hand.

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Iā€™ve seen so many deaths recently of famous older people. You canā€™t help and wonder if itā€™s Covid or the horrible isolation theyā€™ve had to endure. Stupid pandemic

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My siblings and I are so different and have different ideas of how best to handle our elderly mother, but weā€™re still making it work and for that I am grateful.

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With all that has happened in the last year, it is incredibly satisfying to know that my DS16 is gainfully employed and has just completed his first non-dependent tax return. May all recent grads soon be able to do the same!

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Scale says that I weigh 260.

I should weigh about 228.

Time to get a new scale.

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Why in real life am I all of a sudden seeing so many people (who are not in a position to have received vaccines) out to eat IN restaurants??? Why, why, why???

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When the wind blows and the electricity is shut off, with the wildfires advancing on my house, how am I supposed to evacuate in my electric car. And why make the electric companies, monopolies, the only source of our power needs?

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Your inability to see how anyone or any family could possibly have a different experience than you and yours is stunning to me. And when folks point out that there are different ideas or approaches to life, you continue to pound inā€“questioning their input. My gosh, every once in a while respond with ā€œThatā€™s interesting. I hadnā€™t thought of it from that perspective.ā€ You might be surprised what you learn.

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So thatā€™s it. We will never be able to travel there. I know itā€™s fair but Iā€™m so sad.

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I am so sorry she died. You shouldered the responsibility of caring for her through dementia when through her own choices, she was destitute. It was especially kind because she was a difficult, difficult sister even when her mind was intact and she criticized you throughout your lives.

But mom, you are loved. Please do not do this. Flying, burying, hotel, driving eating is so radically unwise right now. You have been so respectful of our choices and yet I cannot understand yours. Please donā€™t die burying your sister. Donā€™t make your funeral the one on zoom.

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Eeeeeew. I just realized the guy in the store was hitting on me. I mean, he was around my age, but still ā€¦ dude, I would think by the time you hit your sixties, you might realize that women donā€™t really welcome comments like that.

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Is it too much to ask that the pharmacy get the refill prescription at least somewhat correct?

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I havenā€™t had a car in over 3 years. Why am I being bombarded with callers wanting me to extend my carā€™s warrantee!?!

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Parents please chill! Your students are in COLLEGE. Spring break is not purely a break. It is time to work extra hours, make the to do list shorter, work ahead, engage in some self-care, nap a bit, get some exercise, etc. These are young adults learning about life and all the things that need to be juggled, not children in need of recess.

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UGH, why did she inherit my klutziness, banged her shin really hard. Gonna be bruised for a while.

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