<p>Hello! This is my first post here, but I'm sure you parents who have been through applications can probably give us a realistic perspective on this. I know that a lot of this is "typical type-A parent/student stuff" that makes a lot of you roll your eyes, and I totally get that; take this from the perspective of me listing my daughter's worst fears and trying to know what I can accurately reassure her with.</p>
<p>My daughter has been a straight-A student up until this year. I never pressured her to it at all--she always pressured herself into it.</p>
<p>First semester of this year, she didn't get quite straight As. I would chalk it up to her stressing herself out with applications, extra-curriculars, and an illness. She ended up with an A- in Multivariable Calculus and a B- in AP Physics.</p>
<p>Now, about a month into second semester, she's getting As in all classes except physics, where she's getting a C. Needless to say, my straight-A student is freaking out; getting Fs on quizzes isn't something she's used to. She checks her online gradebook (PowerSchool) and, today, she saw that it says "Unweighted 7 Semester GPA: 3.98," whereas its always been a 4.</p>
<p>Her fears: Primarily, for the application process. She had to send off mid-year grades a few weeks ago; she's worried that her mid-year grades, with the lower-than-As and a not-4 GPA, will ruin her. She's applied to several Ivies, with a dream of Yale, and has already been stressing enough about her application (worrying about her essays, etc.)
Secondly, that even if she does ("by some miracle," she'd say) manage to get into one of her beloved Ivies, this second-semester decline, if she keeps it up, will hurt her.
Can anyone respond to her fears?</p>
<p>My perspective: I really think it's all going to be okay. I really think she deserves to relax now, and that a bad grade in one class--because she's pretty sure she can pull the rest of her classes--won't be the end of the world. But then, this is the Ivy League, and that's her dream; I don't want to pretend it's not serious, and I don't want to belittle her for taking it so seriously.</p>