<p>Maybe he hoped she’d join in ;)</p>
<p>also a possibility…though she didn’t take it all that well, hahaha.</p>
<p>@ wateradept: oh god i think i know the people involved who you’re talking about.</p>
<p>well if it’s the other two girls you know of, tell them to stay indoors for awhile, else they be sniped from a rooftop or something, lol.</p>
<p>For the record, I love the fact that you made this topic. I did something similar on the Chicago section (<a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/university-chicago/858186-combating-stigma.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/university-chicago/858186-combating-stigma.html</a>) but that seems to have broken down into random discussions about athletics and attitudes, etc.</p>
<p>I applied to Cornell RD and this thread’s making me like it more than Chicago :P</p>
<p>Well, I guess in general, mostly everything is accepted. Yes, certain people are quite notorious to the degree that I would even consider them to be slutty, but it’s not going to affect anything regardless of your sexual level. People don’t really notice walks of shames…people often just sleepover elsewhere if they are super drunk, even if they don’t have sex. It’s not a big deal. Sex is not a big deal (to most). Just have the most fun you want and be safe!</p>
<p>I’m surprised to say this thought never came to mind while here. I’ve seen so many people hooking up that i assumed most people don’t really care; why would they anyways? It’s not affecting them in any way. I don’t get that impression at all here, but then again i’m pretty relaxed when it comes to these things.</p>
<p>Cornell already feels like home =]</p>
<p>wow you aren’t even here yet and you’re already planning your walks of shame?! jeez whats with kids these days.</p>
<p>lol I’m not a whore or anything! </p>
<p>I was just curious.</p>
<p>future tri-delt here.</p>
<p>j/k</p>
<p>I’m guessing they’re the campus sluts? o_O</p>
<p>i’m a guy and i’ve had a steady girlfriend for the past 3.5 years… but i can still shed some light on promiscuity/drunkedness on campus.</p>
<p>the nicest thing about college is how forward thinking everyone is. people may not want to live the way you do, but they won’t judge anyone for living the way they want. the only looks you’ll get are from people who still believe in creationism/jesus/mohammed/whatever other BS, and who really cares about what people who believe the universe is 6000 or so years old thinks anyways?</p>
<p>you want to have sex? well, either be safe about it or tell your other partners if you haven’t been so safe. you want to drink to have a good time and not to be in danger? call the police for a ride (you think they care about an 18 year old girl having a few beers at a frat party more than them walking home drunk alone… or worse… driving home?.. no). </p>
<p>you’re in college. sex is not taboo… the only thing looked down upon is perhaps unprotected sex… and no one except you two will know about that. the vibe around here is: if you don’t spread disease, no one cares about what you choose to do in your personal life. </p>
<p>as for booze, i think you’ll find that as you advance in your major, there won’t be much room for it. you will be having to spend entire saturdays and sundays in labs, doing research, or working in some other way that requires 110% of your mind. obviously, that cannot be obtained with booze in the picture. have a little fun freshman and perhaps sophomore year if you must- do it safely- better to call the cops than to have something much worse happen- even they know you’re not a criminal.</p>
<p>^—Very, very true.</p>
<p>Nobody judges here, or at least minimal judging depending on your values, and that isn’t just limited to like, sex and what not, most of college is very accepting of a lot of people as friends, habits, yadda yadda yadda.</p>
<p>I could care less if one of my friends has sex. Would I sporadically do that? Nah. But how does it affect me? (unless they’re my roommate/suitemate and they’re vocal…then we’ve got a problem, lol.)</p>
<p>I’m sure there are guys doing the walk of shame but you can’t tell, because those guys are skipping and whooping it up in celebration of their good fortune.</p>
<p>Unless you hooked up with that fat chick…</p>
<p>…your sister, perhaps?</p>
<p>…damn :(</p>
<p>Nobody really cares what you do for the most part. Sure there are the radicals you might run into or friends that’ll give you a hard time, but at the end of the day it’s you and you alone who makes your decisions.</p>
<p>i’ve never met such a radical. my friends who dont drink or party dont judge those who do. you can do whatever you want.</p>