<p>yay for single rooms. im sure it will make everything less complicated</p>
<p>CR2005...i would just because that person was being so close-minded. every straight girl doesnt hit on or hook up with every single straight guy on the planet (and maybe kinda vice versa), and its just the same for homosexuals. to leave a dorm for that reason shows how intolerant people are</p>
<p>What are OLs and OSs?</p>
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<p>Exactly. If you are admitting that there might be a problem with a straight male and female, why couldn't there be a problem with other types of sexual attraction?</p>
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<p>Nobody ever said anything about leaving a dorm. We're talking about a room!</p>
<p>I personally would never want to share a room for a long period of time with either a female or a gay male. And I have lived in apartments with both. An apartment? Fine. A room? No way.</p>
<p>But I don't think in a million years somebody would characterize me as intolerant.</p>
<p>by dorm, i meant room. sorry i didnt clarify it</p>
<p>what i meant for the straight male--> female...well they are guys. most are just looking for anything, espeically in college</p>
<p>"But I wouldn't hold it against someone that they wouldn't want to live with a gay person who just outed themselves." </p>
<p>Well if two guys are roomates I guess it's just assumed both are straight? Unless the guy is a total queen, a gay guy would need to newly "out" himself to a new roomate. The hetero roomate wouldn't even think about asking permission to bring his girl over while I'm thinking that this same hetero roomate would demand his gay roomate "come out" to him and ask permission to bring his homo-love over. I asked this question b/c I wanted to gauge people's reactions to having a roomate who brought over a homo-partner before knowing that roomate was even gay.</p>
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<p>So it's okay if a straight female has issues with living with a straight male, but not okay if a straight male has issues living with a gay male? Or a straight female has issues living with a gay female? </p>
<p>Particularly if the culture and social norms that the student was brought up with are different from their roommates? </p>
<p>Hate to break it to you, but there are a lot of students at Cornell who have never been kissed, let alone sexiled.</p>
<p>cayuga: a lot of "never been kissed" types are the ones who end up getting sexiled...</p>
<p>i lived in a triple where one of my roomies was conservie and never been kissed, while the other was a sexiling s.o.b.</p>
<p>i did explain to this conservie roomie that there comes a certain pleasure from having an intimate buddy, but i'd never sexile anyone...i even asked this never been kissed roomie "i wonder how he'd feel if i brought a guy over" :P</p>
<p>i never mentioned anything about living. i was saying that gay fe/males dont hit on every fe/male on the planet, just like straight girls dont hit on males every second and vice versa. thus, i dont know why a straight male would have a problem living with a gay male unless they were homophobic. if they plan on "sexiling" during the school year, universal boundaries should be made in the beginning, regardless if the roommate is gay or straight</p>
<p>"boundaries should be made in the beginning, regardless if the roommate is gay or straight" </p>
<p>i agree, but this usually doesnt happen b/c the sexiling hetero roomie thinks it's ok to do it anyways...but i bet he wouldnt think the same if the gay roomie sexiled him...</p>
<p>but in a way, i guess sexiling is better than what my friend's roommate did: she would just bring over guys regardless of what time and who was in the room. at least by being sexiled you arent subject to have to listen to whatever was going on</p>
<p>but where else are they supposed to have sex?</p>
<p>what irritates me more is those who come to cornell with a boyfriend/girlfriend who is also coming to cornell but deliberately do not sign up for a single room just b/c it's cheaper D:</p>
<p>I just don't understand why this thread was created in the first place. I'm attending Cornell because it's supposed to be strictly academics. All this sexile crap just makes me kind of regret choosing to go to Cornell.</p>
<p>This stuff happens at 99% of colleges (the exception maybe being the ultra-conservative religious ones, but I wouldn't be surprised if it still happened there); you'll find it even at supposedly more academically-focused colleges. There's really no way of getting around the fact that you have thousands of newly-independent, horny teenagers on a small college campus.</p>
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I just don't understand why this thread was created in the first place. I'm attending Cornell because it's supposed to be strictly academics. All this sexile crap just makes me kind of regret choosing to go to Cornell.
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<p>That post made my day</p>
<p>Alright don't make fun of me now just because I'm homophobic and heterophobic when it comes to mixing voluptuous activities with academics.</p>
<p>sex can be a relief...i'm not speaking out against sex...just sexile</p>
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I just don't understand why this thread was created in the first place. I'm attending Cornell because it's supposed to be strictly academics. All this sexile crap just makes me kind of regret choosing to go to Cornell.
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<p>lol pwnd...</p>