Should I stay or should I transfer?

<p>I am a sophomore currently attending NYU as a communication major, and I have loved my experience so far. The only problem is the rising cost of attendance and my accumulating debt. I originally picked NYU because they were generous enough to give me a scholarship that covers my entire tuition. All payments and loans are going to housing, fees, health care, etc. Unfortunately, one of my loans was taken away due to a misunderstanding, and I cannot get it back. My parents are already making payments each semester. With this loan taken away, more money must be paid each semester. To ease the burden, I have been working two jobs, coming to about 23-25 hours a week to cover what the loan would have covered. It does not affect my grades much, but it can get stressful at times. I know I cannot keep these two jobs for the whole time I am at school because I need more work experience and internships related to my major. Many of these internships are unpaid, so I am not sure if I can continuously make enough to cover additional costs. Because NYU is notorious for bad financial aid and I don't think my family's EFC is low enough, I highly doubt I could get more aid. </p>

<p>I have been thinking about going back to my home town, Las Vegas, and transferring to UNLV, a state university which is much more affordable. I would graduate with no debt. Though I love my experience at NYU, I would not object to coming back to my hometown. I was planning to come back to my home town for a little while after I graduated anyways. </p>

<p>However, there are pros and cons to both staying and leaving. </p>

<p>Staying: </p>

<p>Pros
- graduate from a university with name value with a great education
- finish what I started
- continue to be part of the activities and see friends who I've become close with </p>

<p>Cons
- graduate with a high but still manageable amount of debt (about $25k)
- constantly worry about money
- constantly worry about finding jobs and internships that would pay, which limits the opportunities I can afford to take </p>

<p>Transferring:</p>

<p>Pros
-be close to family and friends
-live at home and not worry about housing costs
-pay very little and graduate with no additional debt
-find work and internships without having to worry about money
-build connections that would help me after I graduate since I plan to live in Las Vegas for a little while because of its relatively low cost of living
-perhaps look into another major or minor, something I was afraid to explore at NYU because it would have cost more </p>

<p>Cons
-not sure what credits would transfer, there is a chance that I might have to start from scratch
-transfer knowing that I just wasted time and money at NYU
-I still have to pay the loans I signed off on for NYU anyways
-UNLV's name value is not as great as NYU's </p>

<p>I feel very stuck on what I should do. I feel guilty for wasting all my parents' money just to quit and go somewhere else, but I don't know if staying at NYU and skimping by while constantly stressing about money is the better choice. My parents say they will always support me, and I love them and feel so much gratitude for them. But I hate being such a burden to them. </p>

<p>If you could give me any advice at all, I would be very thankful! </p>

<p>I don’t think 25K is really a big deal; I mean it is like the cost of a Toyota Camry. As for wasting money, remember it is more important to spend money wisely then it is to save it. </p>

<p>Stress is really a personal issue. A lot of jobs are stressful in real life. Someone people learn to deal with the stress because they find the benefits more important other people think the opposite. That is really for you to decide. </p>

<p>If you have friends at your state uni then restarting there won’t be an issue else it kinda starts transferring. </p>

<p>Stop worry about money, money cannot buy happiness. You might be miserable after transfer, you’d better to stick with where you feel good and you will do better. 25K is not much to worry about in your next 50-70 years of life.</p>