<p>I agree with you partially Guruforfreedom; girls do talk only a little bit to the guys they like, but they don’t necessarily stare at them. In my case whenever a guy i liked talked to me i would always respond in one word answers because i was afraid to say something stupid, and he was the one always staring at me.</p>
<p>I’m also a shy girl and i can’t look into my crushs’ eyes for some reason. It feels like if they look back they’ll know too much about me. I also try to stay away from them for some reason…I guess i do this because i feel insecure and scared of what they’ll think of me.</p>
<p>^^Yeah…exactly!</p>
<p>I’m naturally kind of flirty around guys though…I can’t really help it…</p>
<p>^ahh. I love looking at guys’ eyes =]</p>
<p>^You’re a girl? Lawl, sorry.</p>
<p>@Ostrox: OMG, haha. Me tooo. :/</p>
<p>“girls only laugh at cute guys/guys they like when they’re not funny.”</p>
<p>lol, pretty much :]</p>
<p>“BTW, the biggest sign she likes you: she talks to you just a little bit (not a lot, but not like none), and she stares at you. That’s the gold right there.”</p>
<p>GAH, yes. i stare shamelessly…it’s bad.</p>
<p>& about that whole ‘i ignore the guy i like’ thing, i TOTALLY used to do that every time–i feel like that’s what <em>really</em> shy girls do. then i sort of became…less shy, & now i do <em>kind</em> of flirt/do the giggle thing, etc. but, oh man, i can still relate, haha.</p>
<p>I’ve also noticed that the “falling wow” is another tell tale sign. Whereas the “rising wow” is indication that said girl finds you interesting but not necessarily attractive.</p>
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<p>Please clarify.</p>
<p>“falling” and “rising” refer to the pitch of the voice throughout the word.</p>
<p>^^Like “Wow!” as opposed to “…Wooooww…”</p>
<p>I don’t see how that would be a good indicator though. You don’t look at a guy you’re uninterested in and just tell him “…Wooowwww…”. And usually people say it in a teasing manner to guys they’re comfortable/interested in. </p>
<p>I guess it would work if you could catch a hidden tone of disgust in the “wooow” and that “look” girls give people when they’re thinking “What a loser”.</p>
<p>The falling and rising wow thing isn’t really true. I always use the “falling wow” because the rising one sounds really dumb. Unless I wanted to be sarcastic of course.</p>
<p>Ohh. Nevermind. I kinda get what TheYank was saying now. </p>
<p>Instead of the sarcastic “woooooow, you’re so immature”, you meant the “…oh…wow. that’s…cool …I guess…:rolleyes:”</p>
<p>Most people don’t say “wow” these days. It’s been replaced by “cool” etc.</p>
<p>All the cool kids say something is “the bomb”</p>
<p>I don’t consider myself shy, but some people do. Anyways when I’m interested in someone I pretend to not be interested in them, but still flirt with them by talking and asking questions (sometimes playing the damsel in distress). In short I act normal.</p>
<p>fairy_dreams clarified my point better than I could… Grant “Cool” has replaced “Wow” in the common lexicon but the it’s harder to pick up on that with the word “cool” than “wow”.</p>
<p>Does she make eye contact hesitantly and then look away really quickly? </p>
<p>Does she seem really quiet around you and then says something really quickly?</p>
<p>Does she make an effort to be physically near you?</p>
<p>etcetc. If you like her, be patient and friendly. Start texting her or calling if you’re close enough that that’s not weird. Say flirty things and see how she responds–you’ll avoid friend zone. She’ll open up eventually (shy girl speaking here).</p>