<p>I can only share what I have learned in my son’s journey with classical music as a violinist about what we have experienced, and from the people we have talked to with kids anywhere from suzuki violin to finishing grad school at Juilliard…</p>
<p>1)The teacher really is everything when it comes to music. Before my son got serious with his music we thought that it didn’t really matter, if the student was talented that a decent teacher would do, and so forth. What we have learned is that isn’t true. </p>
<p>First of all, there is no such thing as a ‘great teacher’ that works for everyone, teacher’s styles vary and a ‘great teacher’ is one who can work with a particular student and may be great only to him/her (and thus, as everyone keeps stressing on here, finding the right teacher at a school you wish to go to isn’t easy…). </p>
<p>Secondly, a teacher who is an accomplished musician may not mean anything, I can name a number of performers who teach who have excellent reps as performers and as teachers, well,let’s just say they don’t get raves. A reputation as a teacher is more important then reputation as a performer by a long shot, and even then it comes down to chemistry we have found. One of the son’s earlier violin teachers was a principle player of a fairly well respected orchestra, but their teaching skills turned out to be basically that of a local violin teacher…we didn’t see the difference until he switched to a very hgh level teacher someone recommended to us (who teaches on a different instrument) who knew my son, the difference was staggering. Actually, what was staggering was the details that the other teacher glossed over and this one didn’t…it doesn’t seem like a lot, but the difference between a good teacher and a great one is in those details, among other things.</p>
<p>So as others have recommended, once the child starts showing a serious interest in the music it really is important to assess how the teacher is doing with the student, how the child is progressing. If the child doesn’t seem to be progressing or if they hit a roadblock or seem to be losing interest due to frustration, those are usually good signs that the teacher has reached their limit. A good teacher knows that, when my son moved on his old teacher recognized what he needed she didn’t have to offer and was happy for him. It is hard, because you don’t want a teacher to feel bad, but she had gone to a good conservatory herself and she knew that it wouldn’t benefit our son or herself to try and keep him. My analogy is it is kind of like a driver trying to win the Indy 500 driving a Toyota Prius, no matter how good a driver they are, the car just can’t do it…</p>
<p>2)Start researching schools early when looking at music programs.Attend performances if at all possible (or look for them on the web, these days lot of school music programs put video and audio up), if near where the school is attend master classes with the teacher (at many schools, master classes are open to the public). Do research on the net, on places like this, on discussion forums. Take a look at the bios of performers on major orchestras or other venues, take a look at where they went. A lot of the time, even famous musicians will comment on discussion forums, and there is a lot of opinion out there about schools (some of which cause death threats, like saying that Oberlin is not academically challenging if a student plays the viola <em>grin</em>), that you can pick up gleans of knowledge (for example, that certain programs may have more reputation then substance, or that certain programs, though well known, have crappy facilities, etc). </p>
<p>3)Practice, practice, practice. I used to question the wisdom about more practice being better, but the earlier a student starts seriously practicing (within reason, I don’t think it is appropriate for a 9 year old to practice 4-6 hours a day, physically I think it is dangerous on top of other things),but it makes a big difference in the level of play. No matter how talented the child is, without that it is going to limit the level they are at. Requirements on the various instruments differ (for example, piano and violin students tend to be at higher levels then comparably aged wind players, not because wind players are any less enthusiastic or working hard, but simply because violin and piano students start way younger then wind players, because they can:) but in trying to get into good programs the level within the instrument is generally very high. Malcom Gladwell, whose 10,000 hour figure many people have posted on here, says that in areas like classical music there simply isn’t that incredibly talented natural musician who barely had to lift a finger to become proficient, it is a myth (same for operatic/classical singers)…I would argue in fact that in any form of music (other then the synthetic crap passing as pop music these days,where no talents are packaged like american cheese), that work is needed. I have met top level fiddlers, jazz musicians, musical theater actors et al, and the one thing they all have is a work ethic that is incredible. </p>
<p>And hint, if you do that, you won’t see kids, like a girl we know who just got into Oberlin, who were madly spending the summer and fall of their senior year getting tendonitis from having to ‘cram’ for auditions:)</p>
<p>4)Get to know the world you are thinking of heading into. Take a look at magazines devoted to your specialty, take a look at websites, get to know the flow. Every area has its own environment, every one has unique things. I was shocked to find out the kind of level required on the violin these days even in the top level pre college programs, I kind of figured that the kids getting in there were kids who showed promise and musicality, but would be shaped by the program…likewise, I used to think that people heading into classical music could “get serious” in college (again, with varying degrees…) and make it to the high level, it doesn’t work like that. The earlier you can find that out, the easier it is to navigate the process.We were fortunate to run into people who could help us figure things out, as two people who probably knew less about this world then Homer Simpson, and even then it is crazy:)</p>
<p>5)Try and get the student into as many performing opportunities as possible. Youth Orchestras, chamber programs, all state/region/etc,choirs, choruses, coffeehouses, outreach to the local senior center, all them are invaluable. You not only learn how to perform, you learn the life skills needed to be involved in music, in dealing with people at different levels, of trying to schedule hectic lives, of reaching out to people who don’t know music, being able to jump in and play at the last minute (like the cellist in a chamber program my son is in, who had to jump in and learn a difficult piece in less then a week before juries, to fill in for someone who was out of commission). </p>
<p>6) Understand that no door is ever closed. If you can’t get into a good program at first shot, or one you wanted to, that isn’t the end of the line. You can spend a year at a ‘lesser place’ working on your flaws and faults, and use that to do a kick ass audition at the dream school the next year, it is possible.</p>
<p>7)And despite all the stress, try to enjoy it…it is crazy, nerve wracking, nail biting, eat a chocolate cake kind of thing, but try to enjoy it as the journey for both you and your D’s and S’s is part of the whole thing (and if not, after eating the cake and feeling lousy, exercise is a good stress reliever:). </p>
<p>YMMV, just some observations:)</p>