<p>It's not objectionable to say that <em>many</em> (but not all, obviously) ambitious parents of Asian children will encourage (in different degrees - some fanatically, others just in a suggestion sense) their children to pursue quantifiable accomplishments in practical areas like high grades and math/science awards. I did an article on this for a local paper. It's understandable that many parents, and not just Asian parents, want their children to be practical and succeed in fields that will help their future prospects.</p>
<p>This is also exacerbated by the fact that many Asian families are immigrant families. Immigrants of any race have to prove themselves in a new culture, therefore, they're less likely to encourage their children to pursue impractical interests. It's a matter of paying back for hardships. Obviously, it takes a great deal of courage and sacrifice to move to a new country and be forced to start again from scratch, so the push to succeed in an often very conventional way may be from fear of taking risks to jeopardize those previous sacrifices.</p>
<p>And I don't think anyone is saying that it is <em>bad</em> for parents to give their children a push to succeed academically. Obviously, this shouldn't be taken to the extremes, however, I feel that (cheesily enough), the most push should come from the student himself.</p>
<p>For example. I am a Chinese female. I struggled so much with AP Chemistry last year to the point where I sometimes ended up in tears. My parents, though they obviously were worried about my grades and college prospects, began to encourage me to drop the class, seeing how miserable I was. But it ultimately was my own decision to stick with the class. I didn't regret it. Have my parents pushed me academically? A bit. But what I think a lot of Asians/Non Asians will blame on pushy parents is just as much a part of the child as it is the parent.</p>
<p>Again, back to the "sameness" of Asian applicants that is being argued here. Math and science are seen as the profitable, practical interests, no argument there. I myself have a writing, designing bent and I know that that's not exactly the most lucrative thing to be interested in. It's interesting to note that statistically, Asians score higher on the SAT Math section, despite socioeconomic differences between themselves and their white counterparts. (There is only a slight difference between very poor Asians and very rich whites, I believe.) </p>
<p>My post isn't really going anywhere now, but I just wanted to add that perhaps Asian parents should be better educated about college admissions so they realize that to get into a top college, yes, academics are extremely important. But so is to "stand out" from other Asian applicants, and to that effect, to encourage their children to do what interests them.</p>