<p>especially the park at night.</p>
<p>gasp!</p>
<p>Night is a given, who goes to the park in daylight?</p>
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<p>^^ the sound people make when i choke them</p>
<p>You like dead people.</p>
<p>...You guys killed it.</p>
<p>I went to a park today.</p>
<p>I almost made the moves on him today. Of course I didn't.</p>
<p>Anyways, update, I guess.</p>
<p>So, he called this morning.</p>
<p>He told me he didn't know me that well (which is true, we only started talking a couple weeks ago, but he's a senior...well graduate now lol, but I figured oh, what the heck..). I felt weird telling him for that reason too. But he was like, "Oh, we can hang out or something....and we'll see what happens." </p>
<p>I doubt that'll ever happen because I don't think I have enough guts left to initiate that and I doubt he'll do it either. He doesn't seem like the type that would...</p>
<p>He was probably just being nice anyways...</p>
<p>It seems like an honest answer. It means he doesn't reciprocate the same feelings just yet, but he's willing to try.</p>
<p>Go for it. Just remind yourself that you have nothing to lose cause it doesn't matter if you screw up - he's graduating anyway.</p>
<p>:)</p>
<p>Ok I am not very good when it come to girls, and would greatly appreaciate help from you CC cool dudez/gals. Ok so heres the situation, this girl whos a friend of my friend added me on msn and we started chatting alot. She says things like "I miss you alot", "are you single?", and even set her msn name to "will you ask me out?". However, lately she says that she has been studying for exam, which i highly doubt since she is not what i would exactly call the "study type". Also, last night when i asked her if she would go out with me, she juz said "i gtg" and hung up. I feel like she has been avoiding me lately. I do not understand the message that she is trying to send out. Any ideas?</p>
<p>DoubleChocolateChip: perhaps you should read this uber-lame book, "He's Just Not That Into You." The premise is somewhat simplistic: that guys are cavemen, know what they want (ha), and will stop at nothing to get it. Armed with this credo, you would realize that, if your "friend" knows you but doesn't ask you out = "he's just not that into you;" and if you tell him you're interested in him, but he doesn't 'phone you soon, tells you he doesn't know you too well (and makes little attempt to remedy this situation), or makes the tepid offer to hang out "sometime" (note, no precise date) he's...(gulp) "just not that into you."<br>
Sorry. The book has many flaws (like guys always know themselves, and women have to be passive), so it's not worth buying. But if you're obsessing over this so-not-worth-it guy, leaf through it at your neighborbhood book store!
Anyhow, best of luck -- hope you're not moping about him, and don't let him spoil the beginnning of summer (yay).</p>
<p>^^Hmm, maybe I should flip through that book lol. </p>
<p>Sadly, I still am moping about him. He's super nice and not one of those jerk types, so it makes it worse. But yeah, I'm just trying to enjoy my summer now...:)</p>
<p>anon: Are you guys 11? If you were, all of that would make sense.</p>
<p>anon: just forget about her. she's obviously not worth it.</p>
<p>anonamous - maybe she's mad because you didn't ask her out soon enough. Girls can get pretty emotional over things that normal guys may consider insignificant.</p>
<p>doublechocolatechip, I hate to say this but there's this cliche and it's called let the guys do the work we're girls and we're suppose to sit around and look pretty and if u don't have anything to say then don't say it at all and if a guy doesn't like u it's not the end of the world.</p>
<p><strong><em>CC QUESTION OF THE DAY</em></strong></p>
<p>Is it morally wrong to go out with a girl just to make out wit hher or get some action even when you think she's a complete dumb*** and is really annoying???</p>
<p>No. I've done it.</p>
<p>Response to Gurl (sic) next Door -- Morally wrong? Well, I guess it depends on your idea of morality, or lack thereof (i.e. Junior89). But it's definitely a shallow and degenerate thing to do.</p>
<p>Don't go out with her. Just hook up for a night. :)</p>