<p>Okay so I came into freshmen year looking to make friends. I was living on res so I thought it'd be easier. The first month of school kind of sucked, I really put myself out there and talked to people, especially the girls on my floor, but I never made any close bonds like other people did. The girls on my floor were a little reserved, and a lot of them had other friends from high school. Eventually though, after a month, we became friends. We weren't super close like other groups of people became, but we still hung out occasionally. I still didn't feel like I clicked with them though, and I did not feel comfortable around them. They enjoyed hanging out though, so I stuck around. I don't drink, and they like to party, but I was cool with that. Still, I just felt like I didn't click with them because we were such different people. </p>
<p>Second term rolled around, and my courses got WAY harder. I had to put more time into them, and I started spending time at the library. On top of that, I had meetings and events for the three clubs I was in, so I spent less time in my dorm. Also, I became friends with the people I study with, and we started hanging out occasionally too. I actually liked these people, and the people in the clubs I'm in, so I was pretty happy. Now, it's been about two months, and whenever I do see the girls on my floor, they tell me I'm being antisocial and lame. I know they talk about how weird it is that I spend so much time in the library, and I get a little offended because I'm perfectly fine the way I am. I don't see why it has to bother them. They are always on my case about how I don't party or go out, but really I find that I don't enjoy those things so much. I honestly don't even mind that I don't see these girls so much, because I really didn't take much of a liking to them. Was this rude of me? Did I just make things awkward between them and I?</p>
<p>I feel bad though, because they are still friendly towards me. One of them invited me to her birthday, and I honestly don't want to go because I was going to be at home that weekend, and plus I won't know many people there. Would it be super awful not to go?
I feel bad about it, since she stopped by with a piece of cake and Starbucks on my birthday, so I feel like I should at least have the decency to show up to hers. I just don't want to go though, and I don't know, I just thought that it'd be okay to do what I want to do. But it really just seems like they're making an effort to be friends with me, but I'm not doing that in return. I really don't understand why they want to be friends with me, I didn't even hang out with them that much first term. </p>
<p>Is it wrong to not want to be friends with a group of people because you feel like you don't have much in common with them? Is it wrong to be a antisocial sometimes and not want to go to a birthday party which you think you won't enjoy?</p>