sorry, but what is flirting?

<p>I know that flirting is used in The Sims - but the two people play around with each other. it's really superficial.</p>

<p>is it always romantic? does it always carry a romantic connotation?</p>

<p>and what do people who flirt usually do? what does the process of flirting involve? is it used primarily among younger kids or adults?</p>

<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flirting%5B/url%5D"&gt;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flirting&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p>

<p>if a girl touches my arm, is that considered flirting? it lists that as one of Wikipedia's entries for flirting - but could that have a different interpretation?</p>

<p>i cant tell if youre serious or not. talk to your mom.</p>

<p>Go watch more movies.</p>

<p>I'm not falling for this...</p>

<p>Aaah, I'm really sorry if I'm offending you InquilineKea, but I believe that InquilineKea has a mild form of autism called Asperger's Syndrome, which would cause his social skills to not be that great. So this isn't a joke.</p>

<p>Oh, and in case you're wondering, I remember seeing you mention this in some of your posts.</p>

<p>Please tell me this thread is a joke...</p>

<p>its kind of like farting</p>

<p>yeah, this is actually a serious question, as naive as I may be. Thanks for the mention shravas - I kind of felt awkward of disclosing it again myself.</p>

<p>Anyhow... is touching necessarily considered flirting? The Wikipedia article certainly elaborates on what flirting is. But while flirting can map to a certain number of activities, the question is, do the presence of such activities necessarily map back to flirting? Like, sometimes, even adults might touch you for one reason or another.</p>

<p>you all learn what flirting is through subconscious inferences based on experience - you don't learn it through any formal lessons. However, the subconscious inferences are often provided by mental modules - mental modules that I may lack. It's like language - children pick it up subconsciously and very quickly due to the presence of certain mental modules - but yet adults have to exert full mental effort into learning the language - because such modules become non-existant later in life (after a critical period).</p>

<p>In other words - some of you may pick it up naturally - whereas some of us have to pick it up consciously and with full effort</p>

<p>Can flirting be done in a Platonic friendship?</p>

<p>I think that some nerd-filled forums might be friendlier to such questions. :p</p>

<p>Er... Most people realize when someone is flirting with them; it's usually a case to case basis. Unfortunately, there are no set guidelines on what constitutes flirting; if you really need to know, you might as well ask...</p>

<p>-The Flirting Coot66</p>

<p>Question: i smile whenever i talk to anyone i don't know very well .. i don't know why, i'm just a very smiley person .. could this be misconstrued as flirting?</p>

<p>Sadly, pretty much anything friendly could be considered flirting. Uh, don't over think it OP.</p>

<p>flirting is when you bake cheesecakes with chef andre and play kickballl with kaleigh and spank her bootay</p>

<p>You should also try to understand WHO you should flirt with, because you know, if say a much much older man is into you, something is wrong.</p>

<p>Watch Dateline NBC's To Catch A Predator for more insight :)</p>

<p>Only on college confidential...</p>

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<p>Oh lord yes, sometimes it can be even more intense when people know that there is no feeling behind it.</p>

<p>I tend to look at people when i talk...is that flirting?</p>

<p>^and I hope that is a joke.
I can't even tell lately on this thing...</p>

<p>yeah it was lol</p>

<p>I saw the title of this thread and said "wow, CC really has the best of the best"</p>

<p>wasnt exactly sure what i meant though lol</p>