<p>Is there a thread: My S/D was rejected by my alma mater? If so, please excuse yet another post from me on this "sound off" thread. </p>
<p>My daughter was waitlisted at my alma mater. The alma mater for which I did fund-raising, made quarterly donations, stayed involved with the alumni network/club, proudly wear my college sweatshirt and display an alumni license plate holder for all the world to see. </p>
<p>But wait, there is more to the story. Not only is my daughter much more qualified than I ever was, but she is unequivocally more qualified (stats and non-stats) than two boys from her class who were accepted. Yes, she displayed interest, even spent several summers on campus. You name it, she did it. </p>
<p>Once my blood stopped boiling, I thought....hmmm...how this could be? I mean, really. How did this happen? Keep in mind we live in a fairly small town and we have all known each other since these kids were in preschool. Things like National Merit, honor society memberships, awards, honor roll, athletics/music involvement, etc., are published in the school newsletter. Plus, these kids have been in class together. They know what's what. </p>
<p>Then the answer dawned on me in all its unfortunate truth....these boys' parents are LOADED and need no financial aid! We do. So, I am a legacy that didn't "make it" enough to enable my child to attend without help. Shame on me. My alma mater's only nice way to say thanks but no thanks? Waitlist. </p>
<p>My family's sweatshirts and t-shirts in all conditions and sizes, license plate holder, mugs, flags, alumni membership card, recent college brochures, course catalog, postcards, preliminary parent congratulatory letter, etc. are all packed up in a box (I did save out my diploma and tassle). I SO want to mail it to the admissions office and tell them what they can do with it. And don't so much as even THINK about calling me for a donation. Ever. </p>
<p>It is a twist of the knife that another admitted boy lives on our block. I know his mother can't wait to tell me the exciting news!! "My son got accepted to your alma mater! Isn't that just wonderful? Your daughter did too, of course?"</p>
<p>GRRRR....I'm never leaving my house.</p>