<p>Wow this message board gets pretty juicy, doesn’t it?!</p>
<p>For those who are curious about why a non-traditional student would find acceptance when others would not, let me just say that I’m as shocked as any of you. I do NOT have perfect SAT’s- though my reading score was 780, my math was abysmal to the point where I can’t even bring my fingers to type it in here. I have about a 3.75 GPA from a community college where I have been taking a range of courses over the past two years- from African Art to Physics to Spanish. I am entering Stanford as an Art History major/Communication minor.</p>
<p>I dropped out of high school at age 15 because of several factors: I was the victim of a pretty atrocious violent crime, I had an unstable home life, I developed drug addictions in order to cope, and I finally decided to leave home and move to NYC to live on my own at that very young age. I went to a good public high school, and was smart, but life threw a bunch of difficulties my way and I dealt with them in the way that I knew how at the time, like SO MANY young people have to do. I went to 10 schools by the time I was 15, and lived in countless apartments in three of the largest cities in the country. Because I was a child, all of those circumstances were out of my control.</p>
<p>However, if you ask me why I got accepted to Stanford when thousands of hard-working kids with 4.0’s and years of academic prep did not- it is because I made the most out of the crappy circumstances I had in life. I did not go to college (and my mom had been a high school dropout too so it wasn’t a big deal,) but I managed to talk my way into some great jobs. I had never taken an English or journalism class, but I have published articles and essays in books, newspapers, and magazines. I did not go to film school, and could not even afford to purchase my own video camera, but I co-produced a documentary that showed at film festivals worldwide.</p>
<p>The point here is this: you DO NOT NEED to go to the “world’s best college” or whatever in order to live a fulfilling and productive life. You can teach YOURSELF about Noam Chompsky’s theories, how to play guitar, how to publish a zine or an article in the paper. You can start your own business, you can get married, you can get involved in an inner-city organization that helps people in need, you can discover punk rock or gay culture or feminism and it could rock your world, you can decide that you want to change everything and be an artist when you’re 60 years old. Everything has been done before, and everything is possible. Going to Stanford might be necessary if you want to be President of the United States, but that’s about it.</p>
<p>That said, I do feel very lucky to have been given the opportunity to go, and for free. Stanford’s policies on diversity and need-blind tuition assistance are really wonderful and fair, and I feel honored with the chance to get a super high-quality education at a respected school. But if I had been rejected, you know what? I wouldn’t have given a ****. Seriously. Because there is a whole gigantic world out there full of worthy and interesting people who could not care less whether or not you even went to college at all, much less if you went to a “top tier” university. And you know what else? I don’t regret dropping out of high school and waiting until I was 30 to go to college. Because in all those years, I LIVED. I went to Europe, I was in a band, I lived in activist communes and on women’s land, I worked every sucky minimum wage job you can think of- and now I know what REAL LIFE is like, for the majority of the people out there. In fact, to all the kids who have done nothing but work so so so hard all their lives in school, my advice would be to take a break. And live. You might not even know what you’re missing.</p>
<p>I hope that this letter helps someone feel better about their rejection email, and helps put things in perspective. I know it’s hard when you work towards something for years, but in the long run- you’re not screwed, and it WILL NOT make or break your chances in life. If anything, taking a break from school and devoting some time to participation in the everyday world might actually help your chances of acceptance to a fancy institution down the line. That’s just my opinion…</p>
<p>Good luck to everyone!</p>