I am a little bit away from seriously looking at schools for my 3 kids, but for better or worse, I am a planner. I am starting to do some initial thinking and research about this topic.
Both my wife and I attended boarding school, not ones that are frequently mentioned on this board. We both really enjoyed the experience, and would like to do the same for our kids. We are pretty familiar with the boarding school scene, however we don’t live in a boarding school feeder area, so we don’t have any peer families to turn to for advice.
As parents, we have tried to foster a sense of independence and productivity in our kids. Our oldest daughter loves summer camp and starting spending 7 weeks at sleepaway camp quite young. We think she would be a natural fit for boarding school.
High level, we would be looking for as ‘immersive’ of a school as possible. I have a friend that went to Thacher and that seems like something that would be interesting.
We also want a school that is on the more ‘nurturing’ side. We would want them in a school that has an excellent community feel. We want our kids be able to do lots of stuff, experiment, and find things they like. We want them to play a sport, try out for the play, dance, play an instrument, etc. I would classify our kids as nice smart kids. I want a school that would help them develop into complete people. I know when they go off to school they are 14 and will make some mistakes.
We are on the West Coast, and our kids attend a more progressive school (ie teachers are called by their first names). Would it be too much of a culture shock to go to the school on the East Coast? I know that there are some schools that are more or less formal.
I would appreciate some thoughts from the more experienced parents to construct a larger list. I would like to show my kids a wider range of what’s out there, and they can help narrow it down.
If I had to construct a list now for my oldest daughter, it would probably look something like this. I can only base this on my impressions of the people that I know that went to these schools and speak highly of them, a perusal of school websites, and lurking on this board. There are probably too many ‘brand-name’ schools on the list, and I would appreciate some advice on the ‘hidden gems.’
West Coast
Annie Wright - Girls
Cate
Thacher
East Coast
Miss Porters - Girls
Hotchkiss
St. Pauls