If he wants East Coast and liberal, then thatās what he should apply to - and I mentioned schools in an earlier post and thereās a lot more.
However, OP - have you guys made visits to schools yet?
Maybe a Beloit or Grinnell could work? Is he making āassumptionsā or does he know?
As you said, youāve got family in the East - thereās lots of schools to choose from - but then when he say pedigree - well at some point mom and dad have to say - but this is the budget.
it was to work for all - but thereās still fine schools where he can live in this liberal world he believes will exist (they will have the other side too) - use the niche list for help (itās the most complete I found), find schools, go visit and see.
If your budget is $40K, then only look at schools that can get there.
If itās $80K - call an ambulance - your husband fainted and btw - many of us are like that - we could afford but didnāt want toā¦in part, because of what is taking place now (in the markets).
btw - a physics and math degree is great - even if he doesnāt go into academia - and he likely wonātā¦nor will he likely finish in those two majors.
But it can open many doors - like any other liberal art degree.
Find the right school for him, where he can prosper - going to a āpedigreeā school is pointless if youāre miserable.
And some lesser pedigree schools provide top students opportunities they wouldnāt get at the creme de la creme schools. My daughter is experiencing that at Charleston.
Hope you find the right school - but if you set the parameters and then find possibilities to fit the parameters, I think everyone in your family can win.