<p>I come to CC irregularly, but what usually stands out to me is how VERY IMPORTANT it seems to both the kids posting and the parents that they are both competitive with other students and get into a TOP SCHOOL.</p>
<p>I look at all the posts from kids who want to get into Ivy schools or top LAC and I often wonder how so many can afford to go unless there is some special dispensation. Otherwise, kids are going to be graduating with debt to the eyeballs.</p>
<p>Certainly, every parent who pays for college or kid who gets student loans would hope that there was going to be a tangible return on investment, not merely the emotional satisfaction (or brag) of claiming a particular school. Have there been any Actual Studies that track graduates (random sampling, not cherry picked) from top schools to see what the outcome was in jobs, social standing, monetary health, etc.? It would be interesting to see if there was any change compared to where the student started in family assets.</p>
<p>With this desire to only attend the Select, it seems like a sort of "gated community" mentality is forming in the process with people trying to obtain maximum advantages and raise the bar at those places each time for the population as a whole, even if not consciously.</p>
<p>High caliber kids can improve the system as a whole if they (and parents) would not be so set on the so called "top" only, especially if studies showed the advantages of attending and "rubbing shoulders" mainly accrued to the few. People do graduate at the bottom of their class. </p>
<p>We are lucky enough that we <em>could</em> afford the price of many so called select schools, but we haven't inculcated a sense of super competition in our kid either, so he doesn't come across as stellar as many of the postees in EC's or have really high test scores. Knowing him, his teachers are suggesting the top ranked schools automatically, but I'm not convinced it is more than marketing and "location, location" thinking. After all, fine professors can also choose schools to satisfy their own desire for atmosphere, size and various intangibles and they won't necessarily be the top 25, right? </p>
<p>That said, if there really were proven advantages, then I can see how encouraging a kid to strive for entry to the chosen few could be beneficial.</p>
<p>Of course, with the economy looking worse, war and Peak Oil, all these concerns are probably going to fall by the wayside...</p>